I have a father and I have had my suspitions for awhile that he could be attracted sexualy to me, but how can I tell through simple signs.
2006-08-24 14:04:32 · 8 answers · asked by Tammy848 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is very dangerous ground you are treading. Watch for constant touching and staring. Does he behave differently around you when you are both alone together than when there are others around. It things begin getting out of hand then immediatly confront the situation to another adult (I.E. Mother or immediate family)
2006-08-24 14:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by Michael H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope this is not the case. Nothing is worse than the betrayal of a parent.
Unless you don't communicate, I would tell him that his leering is creeping you out. Let him know that your uncomfortable. He is either going to be clueless and immediately change his behaviour, or he'll blow his top revealing the truth of your statements.
I can only speak from my own perspective...if my girl told me I was creeping her out, I would be saddened and quick to try and fix it.
Your question is difficult to imagine for me, but don't do anything crazy and run away to the streets, find a great friend who will take you in if you have genuine fears.
Good luck to you, girl, and my hope and love go out to you.
2006-08-24 21:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inapropriate touching, wanting to spend a lot of time alone with you, sexual talk, trips to your bedroom at odd times, over-telling you how beautiful you are, entering the bathroom when you are using the toilet or in the shower, suggesting that you dress more scantily LIKE THE OTHER GIRLS DO.
2006-08-24 21:29:28 · answer #3 · answered by diaryofamadblackman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't actually touched you or tried to do anything that makes you uncomfortable or know to be wrong, you may be mistaken about him. I hope that that is the case but, if he has done something, you need to tell someone like your Mom, a teacher, Grandparents, etc.
2006-08-24 21:15:05 · answer #4 · answered by Marilyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth is they are really not that many , but counciling would be a good idea for both of u , why would u think that anyway i am assuming he has given some reason to think that u should probly talk to somone u trust about that.
2006-08-24 21:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by rachel m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he looks at you do you feel uncomfortable? Does he get aroused when you are near him? Asks you personal sexual questions? Look for things like that.
2006-08-24 21:09:38 · answer #6 · answered by cheeeeeezymouse25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay on your guard every minute and talk to an adult that you trust and that you know won't side with him. God I'll pray for you!!!
2006-08-24 21:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if he has something protruding from his pants. Or if he says that he has a gift in his pants pocket for you.
2006-08-24 21:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋