My friend works at a hotel and met a man there.
She is 14. He is 48. And she tells me all about him and how she loves him and how he's sooo sweet and nice to her. She thinks she is in love. For all i know, she could be!
But i'm scared for her. She knows that, but ignores my requests to stop attempting a romantic relationship with him! He's MARRIED, for god's sake!
Her future "plan" is to somehow get him single again, get him to love her, and marry him. Not only is that effing impossible, it would be morally WRONG if she succeded.
What should I say to her?
2006-08-24 13:58:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have a dilemma on your hands. She is your friend, but this is very dangerous. Her parents need to know immediately. I am a dad and I would need to know if this was happening to my daughter.
What I would do is notify her parents somehow without giving up your identity. It's a tough thing to do, but if you are her friend then you have to do it.
If somehow something bad ever did happen to her, you wouldn't be able to forgive yourself.
2006-08-24 14:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by mrcatphish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 and in love with a 48 year old. Maybe she thinks it's love, I think it's just major twitterpation if you ask me.
Any 48 year old man in his right mind is not going to leave his wife for a silly little girl that can be his daughter.
I would be telling her parents if I were you, that's crazy. The parents really need to know
2006-08-24 21:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all she doesnt love him, its simply infatuation at this point. Secondly at 48 that man only wants sex from her. If shes really your friend let her parents know before anything bad happens to her. Oh she will be mad at you but its definetly in her best interest. If your not comfortable with that talk to your parents about whats going on, they can help you.
2006-08-24 21:07:24 · answer #3 · answered by Mo the Great 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one he's just using her 'because he's never going to leave his wife for her number2 that's statute rape, endangering the welfare of a minor. guy like that can not get women that will put up with their BS meaning their (Married life) that why he pick's little girl's like you friend. keep trying and if nothing work's talk to her mother. she maybe mad at you for a while but she will thank you later. Good Luck
2006-08-24 21:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by dorrie11206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her parents, they can call the police and put this man in jail,because he also is a married man.Get help as soon as possible to save this poor girl.Good luck.
2006-08-24 21:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that her perants need to know about this guy. in many states if a older person is with a younger person the older person can go to jail. better yet call youth pertection and let them know if this.
2006-08-24 21:08:27 · answer #6 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lock her in her room for about 20 years!
Good luck with that one!
2006-08-24 21:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by kctruckdeals 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her parents she is a child and those men are sick perverts who are child molesters i mean u can also go to the police so they can set up a sting and arrest them see if that stops her
2006-08-25 00:07:07 · answer #8 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her parents. Seriously. This is so wrong, and nothing you say will stop it. Also, if he is encouraging this, that is ILLEGAL.
2006-08-24 21:01:25 · answer #9 · answered by Karen? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she your friend call the cops and tell her parents.
2006-08-24 21:05:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋