i think it's stupid to forgive someone that can betray your trust like that, let me know what you think.
2006-08-24 13:45:29 · 16 answers · asked by nadadizzyblonde 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes they have and no I won't!! If a person is that serious about another person they would not have even thought about it.
2006-08-24 13:47:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, my fiancee cheated and reavealed it to me the day before the wedding because he invited the chick to the reception..and his mother knew about it too, and supported it! I still married him because I believed he was being honest and sincere.
When he told me it had stopped, I believed him. I found out about a year later that they were still carrying on, he asked forgiveness, and i forgave him again because he PROMISED it was really over.
Well, caught him again a year later, this time he beat me up and was arrested. I still forgave him.
He finally left me 8 years later for a different woman whom with he'd been having an affair for about a year.
Yet another 6 months later, I invited him back, he promised it was over, etc etc. That next day I found a letter in the mailbox - an order confirmation for some lingerie sent from my husband to this woman (would it be wrong for me to tell you her name is Mary Kenna, and she lives in Minneapolis and worked for Rollerblade at the time ). That was the final insult to my trust and I asked him to show up that night to get his belongings out of the house, or else find them on the street.
Best decision I ever made. I often question why I waited so long!
2006-08-24 20:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by pknutson_sws 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and No, once they cheat the relationship is compromised, you'll always be wondering if they are cheating or not and the trust is gone. I would say look at the reason the cheating occured and then move on to someone who deserves your love!!
2006-08-24 20:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex bf cheated on me with the woman he's now married to. We were young and stupid. Dropped him like a rock then. Met my now husband and he is the best! Saw my ex bf 1 1/2 yrs ago when he was in town with his wife. We're all just good friends now.
2006-08-24 20:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. I would never forgive a guy who betrayed my trust like that.
2006-08-24 20:48:30 · answer #5 · answered by joesy617 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To my knowledge,I have never been cheated on. And I have never cheated on anyone. I think if your not happy with the one you're with,tell them. Or brake up with them before you go out with someone else. It's called respect.
2006-08-24 20:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It honestly depends. I have never stayed with anyone that cheated on me that I know of. But I know of relationships that were positivly affected from it cause it forced them to talk and take into consideration their flaws. I have never but it depends on t he intensity of the relationship.
2006-08-24 20:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by STAR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yesssssssssss, and I forgive. I love the person too much. And now we are life time partners. To err is human. Life is short, enjoy what you have, having grudges don't help.
2006-08-24 20:49:10 · answer #8 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends on the circumstances and if u believe u can actually trust them and want to be with them
2006-08-24 21:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by rachel m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have never had a boyfriend but yeah ... i don't think i would be able to for give .... but it depends what it is if it is something way too much then i won't .... :)
2006-08-24 20:49:45 · answer #10 · answered by ADi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋