Why do i feel as if my partner doesnt truly love me. ive just undergone a traumatic few months after life saving heart surgery and my mind is playing tricks with me. My partner has been there for me 100% but i sometimes feel irritated by him even though i know he does really love me deep down and i him. We have had a lot of rows lately but most of it is my fault. I guess what im really questioning here is why does he put up with me and my moods. Im very stressed at the moment and i still havent got my head around the fact that if i didnt admit myself to hospital when i did, i would be dead by now and thats a fact!!!!!
2006-08-24 13:06:16 · 13 answers · asked by carolina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Evidentally because you got one heck of a guy who truely deep down loves you and wants the best for you.
2006-08-24 13:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by lurky77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like post-traumatic stress disorder. You should see a counselor to help you through your survivor issues.
When somebody survives a near fatal incident they often come back with a feeling that there should be something more meaningful as part of their life. Then, when routine starts to set in they feel aggitated.
Secondly, with heart meds, there is a chance of adverse reactions causing depression. Check with your physician.
Lastly, take care of yourself. Communicate with your partner and let him in on the stress you are under. Good luck!
2006-08-24 13:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by Lost M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see why you would be a bit moody. I hope that your health gets better. And glad to see that you are still here. I think your boyfriend knows that you are rattle by your situation. Just work on trying to be nice. You can only do the best you can for right now but try not to lash out. It can be scary knowing that you almost died but take this as a second chance from God and try to live the best life that you can. Good luck.
2006-08-24 13:12:37 · answer #3 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur overwhelmed by all that has happened which is common given your situation. trust I've been there. Just thank God you are alive and that your man loves you... now is the time to b positive and thankful 4 all u have big/small good/bad as God have given u a chance 2 move forward with ur life and who better 2 move forward with then ur man who loves you...
Smile God has a plan 4 u. Get well soon! So u can get started...
2006-08-24 13:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by sassyme... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really sounds like you are reading to much into the whole situation. Talk to this person. Why take the blame for things, it may be the way he is making you feel. Im truely sorry for your surgery, and I hope you get well soon,but stand up and be heard. Take it to the sheets...
2006-08-24 13:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by jojo04_2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youir hubby loves you with an unconditional love that no matter what he will be with you. my second wife felt the same as you do before she died she felt she was a burden on me.NOT TRUE!!! I would give anything to have her alive and moody then out of my life. she was my heart,my soul my my friend.and I will miss her.so live long and continue to be a pain and always remember he still loves you.
2006-08-24 13:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by illprayforyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants u 2 be as comfortable as possible,and that is because he loves you.Don't worry.Talk 2 him about it
2006-08-24 13:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by chocolate tea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its just that your stressed and moody. Since your guy has been behind you 100%, i wouldn't doubt that he loves you very much
2006-08-24 13:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by kranky4you 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a heart surgery.......well guess the doc messed up ur heart.......go sue him...ull feel better
2006-08-24 13:09:12 · answer #9 · answered by bingobet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-24 13:08:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋