ok so the story begins in school when i was mad at my bff megg.. so she was all upset about me being mad at her and my friend jessi was in the middle so i was just like...screw it so i told megg that i wasnt mad at her and it was all a joke... to clear it up and i was just having a moody day. well jessi didnt like that i "lied" to them about being mad so she pretended to be mad at me...mhh i know stupid drama....so i got upset and i guess i overreacted. then we got in this HUGE fight cuz i was really upset that she was mad at me so after that she was REALLY mad at me not just joking....even though me and megg already made up. so the last week of school she refuses to forgive me and she says she cant trust me....more fights....so now throughout the summer ive called her and the one time she ansers: i tell her im sorry for what happened. she says no i dont want to be your frined im sorry but i cant trust you and i dont like you... ive cried about this for 3 months straight i need help!!
2006-08-24 13:05:43 · 8 answers · asked by ddddd _ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
okay first things first. Trust is hard to get back after its lost, it takes hard work and commitment. Obviously your friend is feeling hurt and she wants to teach you a lesson. I suggest that you call her again and ask to come over so you guys can talk. and when your there explain yourself and ask for another shot. if she wont answer the phone than either walk to her house and tell her or write her a note telling how you feel and how you want to change. Hopefully things will work out for the best. GOOD LUCK
2006-08-24 13:15:52 · answer #1 · answered by atm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! You said a mouth full!! Let time pass maybe she just needs some time away from the whole situation. Good friends are hard to find, she'll come around. Once you did your part and that was to apologize now as a true friend that we all hope she is,she'll want to squash the whole thing.Good luck and if she doesn't come around then maybe it was meant to be. You already said sorry, what else does she want. Just know for the future don'tjoke with someone you really care about.
2006-08-24 13:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her again and ask her what you can do to get her trust back. I have a feeling that your freind is also making this up to just get rid of you. If she does not want to take you apology and does not want to give you another chance, then maybe its time to move on and find another friend to hang around with. I mean what you did was very immature but what she's doing now is worst. SO Lame.....I know yo think my advice does not make sense and you still want her back, but trust me...you will be a lot better off without her:)
2006-08-24 13:12:15 · answer #3 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 19:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find other close intimate friends. That will cause her to be jealous and show her that you are no so dependent on her. That should do the trick of bringing her back.
2006-08-24 13:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by Graça 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get some red roses, & candle, Then I would look right into her eyes, & tell her that I am very sorry for thing that I did was wrong.
2006-08-24 13:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by jrutan1077 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and asked for her forgiveness she might come around and play hard to get
2006-08-24 13:09:47 · answer #7 · answered by koumba s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't respect u and isn't a good friend.
2006-08-24 13:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by monkey. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋