My boy friend just told me that he is going to take his ex wife out for breakfast with his kids I know he doesn't have any feelings for her its only because shes his kids mother but she has feelings for him i believe they have been divorced for 6 years but when she found out him and i were together she was knd of upset so I don't know if I just let it go and just not say anything or if I should say no i don't think its right I don't know if i'm being jealous so please tell me what to do whether iam being crazy or if i have a good reason to feel that way i'm confused about how to feel.
2006-08-24 13:05:01 · 28 answers · asked by ojosclaras 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When some women feel that their partner has met someone new and is not presently in a relationship of their own they intend to feel insecure and powerless because they hate the thought of someone else taking over their role my ex partner and i were married for 15 yrs and divorced for 2 yrs we are best of friends i have a boyfriend i tell him everything but put his feeling into consideration and always ask him is it OK with him if i can take the kids out with my ex to lunch or even watch a movie i know its wrong to spend time with my ex i feel really uncomfortable but i don't regret spending time as a family with my kids even Theo i don't have any feelings for my ex at all i always think of my boyfriend and love him more for being so supportive tell your boyfriend how you feel and get to know his children that's what my boyfriend has done and we are all happy.
2006-08-24 14:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by dihannamtie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Basically you trust him or you don't. If you don't then you are wasting your time, if you do, and he feels for you the way that you think that he does, then there is nothing that she can do at breakfast that is going to change the relationship between the two of you. Relax, if you tell him that he can't go, and you have a fit about it then you will be the bad guy. Why don't you just try talking to him to voice your concerns?
I am sorry to tell you, but this may be the sort of thing that you will have to deal with. It is good that they get along, a lot of divorced parents do not get along, and it really screws up the kids.
2006-08-24 13:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by kimberly b 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2015-01-28 07:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you must feel. Hugs! Obviously he isn't paying attention. But I'd let it go. If you have a chance to just sit and talk about how you feel about your relationship, maybe that would be a good time to tell him that it hurt. Don't sweat the small stuff, bigger things may come and you don't want to be too tired to work them out. Jealousy and those feelings show you that you have strong feelings for him. That's good. Let him know you were just a little jealous. Guys like that.
2006-08-24 13:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
YOUR BF SURE HAS ALLOT OF BALLS TO PULL THAT STUNT
HELL YES I WOULD BE PISSED OFF
HE DOESNT HAVE ANY RIGHT TO DO THIS
DONT GIVE A SHIIT ABOUT THEIR KIDS
ITS JUST ANOTHER LAME EXCUSE THAT A MAN USES TO GET ANYTHING HE WANTS AND NOW YOU ARE ALLOWING IT
WHATS NEXT?
OH HE NEEDS TO GO AND DO THIS FOR HER AND THEN THIS
WHERE DOES IT STOP?
WHEN DO YOU SEE THROUGH THE BULLSHIIT AND KICK HIS ASSS
I WOULD BE PACKING MY STUFF AS HE IS GOING OUT THE DOOR TO BREAKFAST WITH HER
DONE IT BEFORE WITH EX'S
YOU SEE I SAID
EX'S
ALSO
IF IT WAS THE KIDS B-DAY THAT MIGHT BE MORE ALLOWABLE BUT HER?
NO
THAT IS ON A PERSONAL LEVEL
DOESNT THAT BIITCH HAVE A BF BY NOW?. 6 LONG YRS AND SHE DONT HAVE A MAN TO TAKE HER OUT?
SHE MUST BE ONE UGLY TURD!
AT THIS POINT IF I WAS YOU
I WOULD RENT HER A MAN COMPANION FOR A FEW HOURS
JUST SO YOUR BF DOESNT GET HOSPITALIZED FROM A BEATING HE DESERVES
2006-08-24 13:12:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If it's over then it's over. why don't you go with them get to know the ex and the kids, because if your relation is going anywhere with your boyfriend they are doing to have to be in your life.(you might get married) so make the best of it. if it does not work out your boyfriend saw that you at lest made an attempt to be friends with her.. and the kids.
2006-08-24 13:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-01-12 04:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by Jona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with him. If you all are in a relationship, and he is taking his ex wife out you should be by his side. My fiance doesn't have a ex wife but she is his ex and they have a child together and whenever he goes somewhere that involves her I go. Not that I don't trust him but he's my man. An I want her to know that. No hard feelings but you had yo chance.
2006-08-24 13:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
No way you are not crazy to feel that way, I personally would be outraged! He shouldn't be taking her to breakfast on her birthday they are not together anymore it doesn't matter if they have kids together or not. She should just go without him. He doesn't need to be there its not like its one of the kids birthday or anything.
2006-08-24 13:12:34 · answer #9 · answered by 3m 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask your boyfriend why he wants to take her to breakfast. She could go with a friend or just the kids. I don't think he should go and if he insists on going tell him you want to go too.
2006-08-24 13:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋