Why can't people accept others for trying to change?
I know now and these days it's hard to trust people, but sometimes people are curoious about things?
I know he's kind of ignorent, but sometimes people can't wait so long to be convinced for their mistakes. The way he keeps apologizing to you guys it seems as if he really cares, but you guys don't give a rats @ss about him. Anyway just listen to him and be in touch with his words of wisdom! I did.
2006-08-24 13:03:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
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2006-08-24 13:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by meanblacktiger 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some things words alone do not atone for. Deeds speak, it is then not necessary to apologize, the actions of a changed person speak for them. If by some chance you've ever experienced racism you would know how atrocious this is, and what good comes of reminding people that your head used to be in that space. It's serving the offender's guilt, not the persons wronged by such dreadful behavior. Talk is cheap old Chap, not nearly enough to absolve one of this sort of thing. Live it, don't Mea Culpa all over the place, it just opens up the real wounds this crap causes. Take care and all good things to your doorstep.
2006-08-24 20:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I accept his apology....
"What makes your life worth living
Is your giving and forgiving;
Giving tiny bits of kindness
That will leave a joy behind you,
And forgiving bitter trifles
That the right word often stifles,
For the little things are bigger
Than you often stop to figure.
What makes your life worth living
Is your giving and forgiving." - Anonymous
2006-08-24 20:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by Buzz Lightyear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know forgiving racisim is a very hard thing to do because it is one of the things that can hurt someone the most, but i have learnt to forgive it because most people use it when they are angry like a swear word, if some one swore at you you would be able to forgive them so why not forgive someone being racist because they are angry with you
2006-08-24 20:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by slashrocks359 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree --- note that the same dynamic of demonization and unforgiveness is ironically being practiced by those who are judging the racist. Same dynamic that's present in racism.
2006-08-24 20:17:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know who you are talking about, but if the "guy" is seriously wanting to take back whatever he said, then cool. all is forgiven.
but, he really shouldn't worry too much about what other people think. if you know in your heart that you have changed, that should be good enough.
2006-08-24 20:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by banda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have lost all credibility in my book because you think masturbation is a sin. I can't believe a person who is 21, in this decade would think that. It is absurd.
2006-08-24 22:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He only apoligized so as not to be destroyed, plus it revealed his character.
2006-08-24 20:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by John S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know who you're talking about but you have a good message.
2006-08-24 20:05:41 · answer #9 · answered by sooperman1234 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its only because he is white. if the guy was black, they would have never condemed him to begin with. as you know, only white people are racist.
2006-08-24 20:06:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's forgiven in my book.
2006-08-24 20:05:32 · answer #11 · answered by TJMiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋