My wife recently told me that she has had many boyfriends before me, but non of them ever gave her an Orgasm! I was shocked/amused because she is really beautiful!
So Ladies please tell me, is it better to have one or not to have one with your main man ? I am just interested ! Which comes first ( whoops!) money and/or orgasms, if your man was handsome and rich would you more likely have one than if he was not handsome or rich ( I am not Rich or handsome )? I am really curious to see the answers this one!
2006-08-24 12:53:30 · 8 answers · asked by Latin Techie 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Orgasms are easier for some women than others, regardless of how beautiful/what their body shape is/how old they are, but they aren't crucial to a successful sex life. Actually it is up to the woman more than the man to orgasm, because it can only be obtained when the woman is completely relaxed (and therefore sensitive) and directs the man as to what positions feel the best, to go fast or slow, deep or shallow.
But having a handsome and rich guy doesn't equal an orgasm- being handsome and rich doesn't even have to do with how good a guy is in bed! Listening to your wife and letting her show you what feels best is the easiest way to giving her an orgasm (but make sure you can last long enough to get her there!) Thicker condoms and numbing lubricant can help you last longer if you are fast, but the best way to last longer is simply practice (aka LOTS of sex) where you set your mind on something completely non-sexual when you feel about to ***. (Hint: the women in porn videos fake their orgasms about twenty minutes before they would actually get one.)
Giving your woman an orgasm is a great skill to have, but its not everything. As long as it feels good, and it is sensual and fulfilling, usually the woman is happy. Try new things like warming lubricant, flavored condoms, or scented body oil for foreplay- the more turned on you are before sex, the better it usually is. Good Luck!
2006-08-24 13:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by raybradluvr5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the path traveled to learn how to make her orgasm can be just as exciting. She could have not been as relaxed with them as she is you. The money or looks will not make the orgasm. The touch and sensual being will. Take your time and don't let her forget how you can make her feel.
2006-08-24 20:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has nothing to do with looks. Orgasms come when he hits the right spot.( Yeah right there) He could be butt ugly and poor. (oh yeah just a little harder) It makes it so much better when you are with a person who lives you and wants you to feel as much pleasure as possible.
2006-08-24 19:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
an orgasm is NOT impportant to all women do to the fact that not ALL women have had sex, like me. money and good looks has nothing to do with an orgasm or sex.
2006-08-24 19:57:29 · answer #4 · answered by celinuchis90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't really matter to me; I just like being with my boyfriend. Trouble is, he doesn't understand this and gets upset when he thinks he can't 'please' me. He is a little older than me; I think that's part of his insecurity.
2006-08-24 19:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can't speak for all women but, it sure is important to me!
2006-08-24 19:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by fahlee30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um yes it's very important!
2006-08-24 19:56:26 · answer #7 · answered by johnnac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol dude it speaks for itself, wat woman doesnt want to have a orgasm, those other guys...... hey you just keep up the good work
2006-08-24 19:56:04 · answer #8 · answered by imHereAskMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋