So this guy and I have gone to school with each other for 2 years now, and we're starting at the same high school this year. (Since I've met him, I've had the biggest crush on him.)He's pretty shy, and I tend to get shy around him, too. I always make a point of saying "Hi" and talking with him, but sometimes I just draw a blank and it feels like theyre's nothing to talk about. My dream come true would be for him to ask me out, but I don't think we have that kind of connection yet. What can I do to help him notice me more?
2006-08-24 12:52:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just tell him you like him, and ask him to take you out some time. Trust me, most guys like directness. If he doesn't like you in that way, he'll tell you and then you'll know your answer.
2006-08-24 12:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by leon_the_iguana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing it might be easier for you if just approach him and start talking to him a bit more. since both of you are shy, it wont be too hard to talk to each other after a few days of talking. Ask him what his hobbies are, what sports and subjects he likes, and see if you have any similarities. Remember this: Dont choose someone just for their looks. Choose wisely by looking at their personality.
2006-08-24 12:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about asking for his help in a subject that he's good at and maybe you aren't so good at. Or you could just ask his advise on something to start a conversation. Ask him when he lunches or takes a break and try to connect up. good luck!
2006-08-24 12:55:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Touch him. Reach out and touch his arm while your talking. If he has a hair out of place, fix it (even if he doesn't you can pretend he did). It's really hard even for someone who's shy to miss those kind of signals. If that doesn't work just ask him out. Good luck
2006-08-24 13:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by Frank R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i liked a guy for 3 or 4 years and im too shy to talk to him so im pretty much screwed. so i cant help
did i mention i told him i like him
2006-08-24 13:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up to him and rip a big fart. Guys like that sort of thing. He'll start laughing and that will break the ice.
2006-08-24 12:53:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i liked a guy and i never thought that he would ever like me as more than a friend and now we're going out.
just be yourself and find something that he's interested in to talk to him about.
2006-08-24 12:56:12 · answer #7 · answered by **I.LOVE.JOHNNY.DEPP** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be scared to make the move.. especially if he is shy... although they all say that they like the sweet and innocent girls.. guys usually end up dating the girls who arent affraid to show that they are into a guy... the ones who are confident.... just go with the flow and let him see that you are into him.. gl girl
2006-08-24 12:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by *CYN* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he wants to hang out sometime, or do homework together. Get to know each other first, become friends and if it's meant to be more, it will.
2006-08-24 13:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by Tam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him and let out a nice loud belch right in his face, then you can say "YEAAAHH IM A NINJA!!!" and run off hell practically break his back trying to find you again.
2006-08-24 12:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋