2006-08-24 12:51:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
after the baby...i forgot to add that
2006-08-24 12:53:37 · update #1
my wife is always horny
2006-08-24 12:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by chancethepug 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I thought I was very understanding thinking it was just at different levels. but after fours years discovered that she didn't want to be with me that way and I tried to get help figuring I was doing something wrong and asked her to get help but she refused. I finally ended up having a brief affair but didn't feel right about it and broke it off but the relationship just failed and we are now in the process of divorce. It took me close to 12 years of trying to beat a dead horse. So yeah I think I was overy understanding
2006-08-25 10:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by chancesare45 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex was not at all understanding of my lack of sex drive. He was always accusing me of cheating. Saying "you must be getting it someplace else". Fact was I just couldn't stand having sex with him. He cheated and moved out, we divorced, and I found a man that is amazing (sex). We are both much happier now.
2006-08-24 19:58:25 · answer #3 · answered by MrsMike 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The key to suriving this issue is good communication. First you have to make sure that you are okay physically. Sometimes lack of libito is caused by other things. Secondly, you have to figure out what your triggers are. Lastly, communication with the partner is essential. Men equate your wanting to have sex with how attractive you percieve them (we are essentially weak ego wise...esp. where sex is concerned). Communicate communicate communicate
2006-08-24 19:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by Lost M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Me and my husband have been married for a while. And the sex is just as good as the first day and i want it just as much ever. You have to keep up your sexual relationship with your husband. You cant just say oh well, Its common. Figure out why you dont want to have sex and fix it. If you dont you and your husband are gong to have even more problems soon!!!!!
2006-08-24 19:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by PatricksMom* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was very understanding with her ( 6 months) until she refused to go the doctor or get any type of help, Then the rest is history. it,s been six years years now and evertime we go to court the heater kicks in. ONe cold (B)icth.
2006-08-24 20:43:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
after the baby i had that problem for a long time and my husband was very supportive and understanding, we talked openly and found a happy medium for both of us
2006-08-24 19:53:45 · answer #7 · answered by D.J. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually my ex wasn't very understanding of my lack of sex drive...I'm practically a monk! hehe
2006-08-24 19:52:37 · answer #8 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
my hubby is very understandin since we found out bout my cancer I have almost NO sex drive he don't mind an I no that he don't cheat cus he is always by my side
2006-08-24 19:53:20 · answer #9 · answered by scarlett_bytch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am very flexible in that point.
2006-08-24 20:00:12 · answer #10 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
never had that situation
2006-08-24 20:41:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋