Im 28. I have no children. I want a baby so much....its all I think about but it hurts me inside. My husband doesnt want children. I want to stop wanting this baby....It's killing me inside. Please help.
2006-08-24 12:35:13 · 20 answers · asked by ♣ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I wouldn't want to bring a child into a family where the father does not want him. I cant do that to the baby or my husband.
Am I giving up too much for his happiness?
2006-08-24 12:39:19 · update #1
He told me he wanted children in the beginning. But we agreed to wait 6 yrs. Now it's been 10 yrs. What an awful lie! He said he doesn't want to share me with anyone. He said that he is my baby & I should be happy with that.
2006-08-24 12:43:44 · update #2
i'll help. get a puppy. a baby one. you'll love it and care for it and shower it with all you're attention. you can even buy little clothes for it and feed it with a bottle and buy it toys. try it, i hope this was help.
2006-08-24 13:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by buffychik1 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey me too. I am exactly the same. The only thing is that I will do anything to concieve. my "husband" did not want children, then I left. He did not want to fulfill my life dreams of becoming a mom, so I knew then, he was not the one for me. I am not pregnant yet, but I will be. I have faith and so should U!
2006-08-24 19:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by Kawainani 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ur never gonna get over it. if having a baby is something that u really want, then u should have a baby!
so stop trying to stop wanting a baby, bcuz u always willl and thats y u should have 1
2006-08-24 19:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by Babygirl000001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have covered your stance on children before getting married in the first place! You should marry someone that does want children, or deal with having no children.
2006-08-24 19:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would a pet of some sort help? How about volunteering with children? I know neither would be the same, but they might help. Do you know any really annoying children? Maybe spending time with them will diminish the urge.
2006-08-24 19:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by K S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try and convince your husband. I felt the same way and my husband did not. I reminded him that it takes 9 months of baking! Two months after our talk he agreed and now he is so baby crazy!
2006-08-24 19:38:00 · answer #6 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I'd leave him and find a man that wants children. You'll never get over that feeling and eventually you'll make him cave and then he'll resent you and the kid.
2006-08-24 19:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would start by babysitting someone else's baby for a weekend...
i would talk to my husband and find out why he doesn't want a baby...maybe he is just insecure about it
2006-08-24 19:40:00 · answer #8 · answered by uranus2mars 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to be a mother. that is natural. talk to your husband and convience him to have just 1. if all works out 1 may lead to more.
2006-08-24 19:39:50 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want a child why not adopt or let me have a try:)
2006-08-24 19:38:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋