How do I keep my room....................?

Question

I have a big problem with my dad. He hates all my friends and makes me lose eveyone I have. I want to be sneaky. I want a room that my dad cant unlock like an inside lock. I need a way that he cant hear my convo when Im talking on my cell. I need tips on how to be spy like. Traps, and other stuff. Yall know what im talkin about. I need something that I can do myself. Im only a teen.

Yall plz. I dont got anything to hide. My dad is mean to all of my friends because of the fact they are black. He works at the prison and sees alot of black people there. So he thinks all are like that. I jus need to get privacy and away from his sight.

Answer 1

I believe that my kids do deserve some privacy, but in the same respect if they are doing or talking about something that they think that they have to hide from me, its probably wrong. your father is just looking out for your well being, I know that parents can be a pain, but if you have an open relationship with him, and ask him to trust you, then prove to him that you can be trustworthy, he might respect your wishes of not eaves dropping on your conversations. you must earn his respect and keep it. be open with him, but be honest too. you will find that you will have a better life with him and your friends if you do not shut him out. but prove to him that you can be trusted.
I have always told my kids that I will trust them until they break it. if they break the rules, there are consequences. I have also instilled in them that if they are doing something that they have to "hide" or keep secret, it is wrong. they will come to me with just about anything, and we have a very open relationship. I respect their privacy, but in the same respect, I do not let them run wild, or have all the things that they want. they have to earn thier priviledges, and this has taught them that if they want more, or to keep the one they have, then they must play by my rules. have really not had much trouble with them. try talking with your father. tell him your concerns. he will listen. don't try retalliation, or he will catch you and it could be worse for you. trust me I am a parent, and if I caught my daughter trying to "rig" a trap, she would loose her cell and house phone privedleges!!!

OH, i DIDN'T SEE THE PART YOU JUST ADDED. EXPLAIN TO YOUR DAD THAT WE ALL HAVE TO LIVE TOGETHER ON THIS EARTH, AND YOU ARE A BETTER PERSON TO WANT TO HAVE FRIENDS OF ALL RACES AND NATIONALITYS AND YOU SEE THEM FOR WHO THEY ARE, NOT THIER COLOR. I REALLY HOPE YOUR FATHER WILL NOT BE HARD ON YOU JUST FOR HAVING FRIENDS OF A DIFFERENT COLOR. I COMMEND YOUR HUMANITY. hope this helps. :)

Answer 2

Ask your dad why he's doing that. Ask if he just doesn't want you to have friends at all or if he thinks your friends are bad influences. Ask him if it's cuz they're black. You should be able to have friends of good character & those are the ones that stick with you through thick & thin anyway. Sometimes dad's know who might be bad for us & get us into trouble. Maybe you're hangin' aroung the wrong crowd.
He dosen't want you to make the same lame choices your friends might make & end up pregnent or miserable for the rest of your life. He's trying to help you have a happier life. I know you don't want to hear that but my parents left me alone & I got into a heap of trouble hangin' around the wrong people. If you can't ditch the losers just laugh at their stupidity & don't do what they do. If they call you names just say, "at least I aint gonna be the one bare foot & pregnant in the kitchen!" Or "You go ahead, I'll just watch you guys kill brain cell & work at The Good Will and Mc Donalds the rest of your sorry lives!"
Get them back. Laugh it off.

Answer 3

What you need is a basement room and some friends, that he can't possibly hate. As for the cell phone bit, just do it before he gets home. Also make sure the house isn't bugged and that your cell phone isn't tapped.

Answer 4

First of all: walk outside with your cell and talk on it when they are not around. have a lock on the door like a door knob on the front of your house. These are all simple things you can do by yourself. Parents are watching out for your safety. But I know what you are going through.

Answer 5

Well if you want to hide stuff inside your room,
when I was younger I would hide notes from my friends,
I had a regular book and there was a hole cut out of the middle, you'd never tell, make sure its a "childish" book that he would never think to pick up.

Answer 6

You are really immature at this time, and that is why your father is so worried and wants to protect you -- it is NOT that he is spying, but because he IS an adult -- he KNOWS bad things happen all the time to STUPID little girls who think they know it all. So get a grip, start opening up to your father, and CHERISH the FACT that he is INTERESTED in your safety and Welfare.

Answer 7

u can put a latch on the inside of ur door.... how u can tell if he goes in when u aint at home is to tape (clear tape) a strand or 2 of ur hair from the door to the wall if it is broke when u get home he has been in there.... on the other hand ask him for some space tell him that u need his trust.. explain ur not doin nething wrong.... and if u r lie...as a mom i shouldn't say that but when my babies get older imma show them i trust them

Answer 8

well when you talk on your cell turn on your music! and tell him the good things about your friends maybe he will understand why you like them as friends and sweet talk your dad you know tell him his suit looks nice or something like that! and outside talk on your cell that should do it and if none of those work.............. just tell him you want friends you are alone and you need them he should understand

Answer 9

I always talkin the bathroom..lol It's good... but I usually juss act like i'm on the toilet...but i talk quietly..lol

Answer 10

instead of trying to keep your dad out why dont you talk to him, tell him how you feel. Let him know that he is bothering you and your friends