i was interested in having children with my lover...and i didnt want to adopt. i want to experience the real birthing process. Comments or advice?
2006-08-24 12:31:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
my daughter is having a child, she got pregnant the old fashioned way. A child hood friend is the father. She and her partner, are going to raise the baby, but he will know his natural dad too. I am sure that they will run into their share of ups and downs, but they are all looking foward to this baby. As a gramma, I am too.
the hospital gave her partner the "dad" package and she is going to all the classes with her. most everyone has been supportive of them.
I hope that what ever you do, you are blessed.
2006-08-24 16:34:30 · answer #1 · answered by 2ndchhapteracts 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well i am bi-sexual. I don't know if I would go back to men if something happened with me and my girl or not.But as it is now she makes me happier than any man ever has.But now I do have 2 children already.They are 5 and 6. She doesn't have any of her own.We have talked about her getting artifically inseminited.Birthing a child of you own is a wonderful experiance. And you could never imagine the love for the child that comes with being a mother. It is awesome!
2006-08-24 19:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a lesbian, but I have an aunt that is. She and her wife (they ended up getting married it was beautiful) have been together for about 25 years now. They had invitro and have a very beautiful daughter. Their insurance actually covered it, which was a shock and a blessing all in one. Their daughter is seriously one of the smartest kids I have ever encountered. I expect great things from her one day. If you have any more specific questions I can ask Dawn for you, I am sure she would be happy to answer questions.
2006-08-24 20:48:10 · answer #3 · answered by kimberly b 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I already have a son, but when I do meet 'the one' and we decide to have children, I'm opting for adoption, for one because I cannot have children. But if she wants to do the whole pregnancy thing, I will support her the full nine...and beyond. I just know I'm not giving birth again, lol.
2006-08-24 20:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by Agent Double EL 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah i plan on having children with my girlfriend,we went through a miscarriage not long back and i thought i couldn't ever go through that again,but my girl wants kids and i want to see her kids, i wanna be a part of there lives,i wanna see the features of there mum shine through when they smile,i wanna hear my girl be called mum,oh how soppy am i anyway,yes i want kids and it will be by artificial insemination,you can go to a sperm bank (my aunt used to work there but got fired for drinking on the job,lol get it)but its quite expensive or ask a close male friend to donate for you but makes sure he gets tested for STDs and get a contract written up to protect you and him in the long run..
2006-08-24 19:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by verons_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would adopt because there are sooooo many children who need loving homes...i am too old to have a child on my own..i am 35..and too many things can happen during child birth..that i think adoption is the answer for me.
2006-08-24 20:17:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AI is super expensive, a less costly option is to pick your doner, buy the frozen sperm and do it your self at home. It's not always as effective but it definatly costs less.
2006-08-24 19:37:16 · answer #7 · answered by NoBoysAllowed! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I already have a child and a grandchild. But if i was younger i would consider having a child with my lover if i had one.
2006-08-24 19:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by ~Twisted Sister~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Already had mine.
Yeah, I'm old fashioned, I had it the "old fashioned" way. Yes...via sex with a man. Go figure!
Hey, just because I had sex with a man, it doesn't automatically nullify my gay card!
I still have my toaster oven!
2006-08-24 19:43:58 · answer #9 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
good luck! im sorry i dont have any advice tho, i have no children and do not plan to. i hope everything goes well for u
2006-08-24 19:34:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋