well i have like this really great guy friend. everyone thought he was gay. and of course he said he wasnt and since i 'thought' he told me every think i made myself believe he wasnt gay either. so around january he told me he was bi and that he had even already had sex with sum random stranger in a popeyes restromm. TOTALLY grossed out i of course looked over it cuz hes still my friend. but he has been acting like he is 1 of the girls with me and my female friends and ive been blowing him off about certain things that he wants to join in that are like strictly 'girlz time' to gether. my friends hate when he joins and i find it kind of awkard. how should i handel this. i dont wanna blow him off but... just PLEASE HELP!!!
2006-08-24 12:31:38 · 10 answers · asked by kandy_kiss16 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i didnt change when he came out. he changed from shy calm kool straight guy to mr. attitude flamming gay guy and moody all the time with in a matter of seconds that he told me. and my friends will start to wonder why he likes hanging with girls so much. and he doesnt want them to know.
2006-08-24 12:42:04 · update #1
You liked him just fine when you thought he was straight - I am sure he hasn't changed.
You are the one that has changed.
2006-08-24 12:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by Just ME 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You want to blow him off probaly cause he lied at first. Give him-her a chance. They really dont know who they are, aand its even harder when you dont have friends to talk to. Tell him how you feel, all the time, atleast he will know!
2006-08-24 12:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by Kawainani 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you can't handle when he's gay, ask him to merely be merry. It's the best advice I can give you while I'm trying to recollect how many Guinness I reduced to glass bottoms.
2006-08-24 12:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by McAtterie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So do activities that aren't awkward for boys or girls. And if your friends don't like him then don't tell them your hanging out with him and just hang with them later.
2006-08-24 12:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by doll face =] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
soon enough he'll start to realize you dont want to hang out with him or just tell him because if he finds out it will be worse but telling him is not that bad
2006-08-24 12:36:43 · answer #5 · answered by chinora m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just gradually start to ignore him and or just tell him you don't want to hang around with gays.
2006-08-24 12:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that while you like that he is your friend, you also need time with just your girlfriends. You can always say 'girls are just like that".
2006-08-24 12:33:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
why can't he hang out with you technically he is one of the girls... talk to your other girl friends and just let them know he wants to join.... you shouldn't out him just cuzz he came out
2006-08-24 12:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by Muy Buena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god made adam and eve not adam and steve. It is okay to be friends i guess but that restroom stuff is way toooo much information!
2006-08-24 12:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by somebody 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You blowed a gay person? damn girl, you that desperate?
2006-08-24 12:33:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋