only recently i have been having major crushes on females, but only ones who are older.... i think about them all the time... there has been two! they are both in their twenties... i am 15.i know a lot of u will say im too young to decide things like this but this is different. i dont know why though.
2006-08-24 12:27:28 · 19 answers · asked by Lizzie J 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
um go see a psychiatrist, disguise urself as a guy, and go to an all boy schoool
2006-08-24 12:34:56 · answer #1 · answered by maconheira 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At fifteen we are filled with raging hormones telling us we're ready to experiment and learn what we're about. Unfortunately, our society does it's best to make us suppress this. We are told we're still children and will be till the magical age of 18. Adults are freaked out by sexuality because they weren't able to figure it out at all when it first arose within them. Most primitive societies have an initiation for boys and girls around their thirteenth birthdays, welcoming them into adulthood. Because we have such perverted attitudes toward sex from having to suppress and hide it for years after nature has given us the most intense hormonal dose we'll ever have, there are a lot of confused adults walking around. And they can be dangerous. So avoid having sex with adults till you've figured out what it means to you. Even with other kids, there's so much confusion you've got to watch what you're getting into. Not to mention pregnancy and STDs.
So go into it all slowly, gently and with your curiosity leading you. As to whether you are lesbian, bi or bi-curious, no label can ever define you. Don't be so ready to be something. You'll learn answers eventually that you don't even have questions for yet. But sexuality is where all life comes from, so if you keep your eyes open you'll find something really beautiful there when you're ready.
2006-08-24 22:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's at your age, post puberty, when we all find our sexual preferences.
Just because you have those feelings to older women, could just mean you admire them. It seems that it isn't too unusual for young girls to feel that way.
There isn't the stigma attached to two women, making love, as there is to two men.
One thing though, at your age, having a sexual affair with an older person, could be very harmful, and disastrous.
But as long as it's just a fantasy, enjoy it. When you are older, about eighteen, you can decide on which is the best way to go.
2006-08-24 19:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
curious... wheni was younger I didnt understand why you had to be with a guy and sometimes think about me being with a girl and it made more sense to me and I was "attracted" to girls... well i grew out of that stage and now have a wonderful bf of 3 years...
let time chose for you. Maybe you will end actually pursuing this interest... but as for me as soon as i matured ir something.. it changed.
2006-08-24 20:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by Cassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it's hormonal, I went through the phase. It doesn't mean you are a lesbian, just bi-curious. Still, it's nothing to be ashamed of. Take care : )
2006-08-24 19:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When your hormones are changing you go through these phases,
If you feel mature enough to make up your own mind on sexuality, Then you should,!!
You don't need to attatch a label to yourself,
When you grow up, you will either learn wether your attracted to male or females more, theres nothing wrong with either,
It's called " experimenting "
hope this helps
xxx
2006-08-24 19:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think you are atracted to the age becuase you feel that you want to be that age. I believe that if you did have an encounter, you would be greatly disappointed and feel ashaimed. let your body and mind grow more. Plan for that age and do the things necessary to fulfill those plans.
2006-08-24 19:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by Newt 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you will never know unless you try. Seek out a woman, give it a shot. If it freaks you out after ward, you were probably just curious and not a lesbian.
2006-08-24 20:15:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think you are a lesbian unless if you have practiced it but there is no female who have neva admired another female cos i myself had.perhaps,it maybe that you admire there dressing or their beauty and if it is in that case, that does not make u a lesbian and please could we be friends?my email address is winky_dipsy90@yahoo.com
2006-08-24 19:39:24 · answer #9 · answered by Aliyu J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
and the story may be i have to ask you more questions before i can answ..this one...but listen..star by eating better and feeling about yourself...see the piramid of food...and be honest with you...take some vitamins...day by day...and see a doctor...ok
2006-08-24 19:31:32 · answer #10 · answered by lins 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋