This friend of mine is really cool, we get along really good...we always mess around with each other as well and she likes guys and claims to be straight and all...and i am straight as well...anyway she keeps bringing up gay topics...and asking me would if i became gay and just stupid stuff like that...anyway recently she said if i was to become gay..she better be the first i hit on...and she kept going on throughtout the day about me supposedly going gay?? im like what the? and i got mad...anyway then she said to me "what if i was asking u that to know how you feel about it" she also said "what if i wanted to hit on you? would u hit on me back or hit me?" lol...where is she getting at? im confused...shes messes with me like she would with a guy...the way she talks to me and all...before she asked me those questions above and before i told her she was making me mad...she said she thought i was cute but said im not a guy and she wouldnt go there...is she bi-curious? afraid to say it?
2006-08-24 12:18:58 · 7 answers · asked by Da_M_Bitch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She is going thru a stage of bi-curiosity. She probaby isnt gay, but probably has wanted to experiment and see how it feels to be with another woman. Many str8 ppl go thru that type of stage sometime in their life. Many of them like it and some dont. I bet you if you get her drunk, she will make the moves on you. Also many girls like to kiss other girls but that does not make them lesbian.
2006-08-24 12:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by PD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem where i fell for my bestfriend it took me a lottttt to tell her but maybe the reason why you have feelings for her is because she has some feelings back or gives of vibes like she does. if you and your friend are on good terms on discussing gay people then beat around the bush a little and see what she thinks maybe drop some hints? if shes a good friend she wont care what you think but you can always make you fall for her or you can take a break from seeing her for a little bit and get her out of your mind.
2016-03-17 02:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she is trying to find out who she is. Maybe she has feeling she does not know how to handle. Just let her know you are straight and have no desire to change.If after telling her this she keeps coming on to you, get a new friend.
2006-08-24 12:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by BUTCH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's not bi-curious she definately is towards you. if you're not attracted to her in that way you need to let her know cuz she's attracted to you and the longer you let it go on the more she's gonna keep at you about it. it'd be sad to lose a friend simply because you didn't say something when you could have.
2006-08-24 12:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by janine h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds curious. Maybe she wants to try it and is comfortable with you being her first. If you are not interested let her know in no uncertain words that you are not down with that. I had the same situation and now she kind of avoids me but i figure she the one with the problem not me.
2006-08-24 12:28:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should ask her if she is gay a bio or a lesbo.U should do that bcuz thats the way u should solve somthing like that.
2006-08-24 12:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be such a prude, get naked with her and play. It doesn't mean you don't like guys..
2006-08-24 12:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by Tim 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like shes not sure her self , and It also sounds like she Is checking on you.
2006-08-24 12:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by brown 25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋