well there is this boy i've liked for a long time and i've asked him out a couple times and he always makes exuses but he acts like he likes me, he emailes me IM me and he winks at me and offeres me everything and even tryed to hug me but every time i ask him out he says no plz help!!!!
2006-08-24 12:15:56 · 12 answers · asked by me 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
err... maybe he's just kinda afraid to be with you? it is possible he's: embarassed of you, doesn't want a girlfriend, his friends might disaprove of you(you know how shallow some guys can get), but sometimes dating makes being around him awkward. My advice would be to kinda act like you don't like him for a bit, then he hopefully will come crawling back.
2006-08-24 12:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by GrayFarie♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just enjoy the flirting and not the committing. Perhaps he already has someone and he doesn't feel right about ending that relationship. Maybe he thinks you are too (young, sexy, old, un-matched) for him and he still wants to keep his distance.
The only way to find out is to gently ask him in a round-a-bout way; if you know any of his friends, as them if he's committed to someone. Maybe he's waiting for the right time to as YOU out, but you keep beating him to the punch line. Guys usually like to lead in relationships...at least at the first.
Then again, he may be gay. Find out before your heart gets too committed.
2006-08-24 12:22:05 · answer #2 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 19:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's either something to do with age or insecurities he has about himself. If he's really young, he may not have much self confidence when it comes down to it. flirting is easy if you don't think it's going to lead anywhere, and that may be the most he's ever done. just don't rush him and let things happen when and if he's ready.
2006-08-24 12:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by jbsim75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow this boy seems weird. i had a similar problem. there was this guy i liked and he acted like he liked me A LOT. like he'd always come up 2 me and talk and flirt wit me and get my ball in basketball if it went in his direction. and all the girls thought he liked me. but i know he definitely doesn't like me cuz the days after that he wouldn't even talk 2 me and he just like stared at me and my friends when he'd see us. we aked him online y he ignored us after being our good friend and he said he wasn't ignoring us and he was really sorry if it seemed like it did. but he doesn't keep in touch wit me or anything so i doubt he likes me. and he does flirt with a lot of girls but it really did seem like he liked me. maybe ur guy is similar...i think u should just ask him online y he says no when u ask him out but flirts wit u? is there a possibility he is gay?
2006-08-24 12:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes the attention you show him, but that's the extent of it. You should just accept this guy as your friend, and move on. You can do better anyway!
2006-08-24 12:19:48 · answer #6 · answered by quirkyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u like him don't be scared and if he says he don't like u then forget him there are many guys out there and if he's not the one stop thinking about him and move on
2006-08-24 12:18:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw him!
Just tell him that he's leading you on as if he likes you and your confused. then ask him how he really thinks of you.
2006-08-24 12:18:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be gay. They are loving, but not in love, NO OFFENSE TO ANYONE! I am not gay, but I am sensitive so, maybe not. I don't know.
2006-08-24 12:20:28 · answer #9 · answered by Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to make him jealous with some one else
2006-08-24 12:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋