The mother has been in a relationship with another man for three years and has two children with him. My Daughter has always lived with her. I went to court to get visitation rights several times and ACS has even inspected my home. Yet I was given no rights I have to travel 45miles to spend only a few hrs with her and bring her back home. Although they will not allow liberal visitation or other wise they have no problem taking half my paycheck. To be very clear there is nothing wrong with me I am married and have other child with my wife. I am a government employee and a good citizen just trying to be a part of my daughters life. Yet it seems as all the courts will allow me to do is pay too much in child support so much that my wife and children go without because of the gross loss of income. It wouldn't bother us so much if my daughter was a part of our life but the mothers boyfriend seems to be given more respect and taking my role. So can I give up my rights?
2006-08-24 12:10:48 · 5 answers · asked by Distressed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
call up your daughter's mother and offer it to her. she may okay it. worse come to worse, tell her to let you claim your daughter on your taxes, that way you can get atleast a few dollars back
2006-08-24 12:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by Karen Elaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd first figure out why your house keeps failing the test to get you visitation rights.
Otherwise, if you feel like you want no part in your daughters life at all - then yes, you can, but the mom has to agree as well.
2006-08-24 19:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by rrhiannon99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can but, you will regret it in the long run. Don't wait for her to take you to court take her and hire a lawyer that specializes in fathers rights you can even find some to do it pro bono. The only way they would take half of your paychek is if you are in arrears. This is one reason why you should really get to know who you are screwing because you may be connected to you for the rest of your life.
2006-08-24 19:15:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can as long as the mother agrees to it.
2006-08-24 19:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if she agrees
2006-08-24 19:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋