Okay for the past 6 months I hav taken emotinal abuse from my boyfriend.. He always thinks that he is right and im stupid.My parents don't like him (long story) So he think i shouldent talk to them at all and i live with them including my sister and the only person i can talk to is the only one that likes him and that is my real mom (whom i dont live with just go to her house every weekend) alright but this week my sister and her boyfriend broke up..my sister is 18 and has a baby and 2 jobs, he took her car and cell and my dad need me home to watch him so i came home..and my boyfriend is calling me stupid and a pushover for it...saying i dont deserve him and when he goes back to school he is going to find a better girlfriend
him: intelligence doesnt quite make sense to you?
me: does calling sombody stupid make them any smarter?
him: itll make them realize theyre doing something stupid n that they should learn from it not keep being stupid
is this okay?
2006-08-24 11:57:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
him: ya like ur brain freezing for months hahaah
him: hahahh its hilarious
him: stupidness is funny
him: so... ur stupid? still? right?
him: omgggggggggggggggggggggggg your stupid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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2006-08-24 12:11:11 · update #1
you're boyfriend is a loser and you can do soooooooooooooo much better. don't take that s hit. it is partial your fault for letting him do that to you. talk back to him and dump his st upid a ss!
2006-08-24 12:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi AngelBaby you are not stupid if your father needed you home to watch your nephew and that's what you wanted to do by all means that is what you were suppose to have done. You should not put up with any kind of abuse whether it is physical, verbal or emotional, abuse is abuse, and you don''t need to be treated that way, you are a beautiful person and should not be abused. if you don't believe you are beautiful go in front of a mirror and tell yourself that you are beautiful and you do deserve better. Their are plenty of guys out their that would treat you the way you are suppose to be treated and also respect you. Your mom has her reasons for not liking your boyfriend no mother wants to see her daughter being treated badly. Most men think they are always right but they are not. Your boyfriend is very insecure with himself that is why he treats you the way he does, an abuser always feel like they can pick on some one that is smaller than them but little do they no a small person can give off a heck of a hit when pushed to far. Get out while you can and before it gets worse. I wish you all the luck God Bless and take care.
2006-08-24 19:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by hotmoneymaker 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH U ?? is it okay being demeaned all the time ?? hell no. What is wrong with u people putting up with abusive relationships. Do u wanna end up like ur sister ?? and with a sorry *** boyfriend. he probably doesnt even have a job and he sounds like a loser. Know this no one deserves to be treated that way, ur a person who deserves treated kindly and respected. If a guy doesnt respect u he should be out of ur life before it gets worse, and trust me that it will get worse. So ur already on the right path.. u know hes abusive all u gotta do is leave him and he will want u back but u gotta go on life, do not take him back he doesnt deserve u, u can do better than that. Next time make sure the guy is mature and not abusive like this one.
2006-08-24 19:00:20 · answer #3 · answered by sourgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not ok, you could do better. Your parents don't like him for a reason, you don't say why, but maybe they have seen something in him that you are ignoring. Think about this, if he thinks you are stupid, why wouldhe want to be with you? If he is that much smarter than you why doesn't he go out and find someone to match his intelligence?
You can do so much better than this, this guy is a clown, you need to be treated like a human being, sounds like your life hasn't been easy, and this guy is taking you down the wrong path. Get rid of this guy, spend some time thinking about what makes you choose a guy who treats you so poorly. Relationships shouldn't be about who is better, they should be about being with someone you love and respect and who loves and respects you.
2006-08-24 19:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by n_of49p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is never ok to have someone abuse you whether it's physical or emotional abuse. NO abuse is ok. And it's never ok to let someone else call you stupid. If he is that immature, you need to move on with your life because you're worth way more than he will ever know. There are too many people out there for you to stick with this jerk. You can find somebody better than him. That's my opinion, though. It's never ok to feel like a horrible person just for some guy.
2006-08-24 19:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by Kj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a better boyfriend. A good boyfriend will tell you how smart and beautiful you are, not how stupid you are. A good boyfriend will do everything he can to make your life better, not worse, and he will know the difference without being told. I repeat, find another boyfriend.
2006-08-24 22:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by heywoodjablomi1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should break up with him immediately, he's not worth it. I don't think he loves you at all. Your family is more important. Why did you date him in the first place? He's taking advantage of you. There's someone out there that is MUCH better than him. That is not okay for him to treat you like that.
I don't understand why you like a jerk. If you stay with him, he might do to you what your sister's ex did to her. It might be hard, but you will feel better. There's someone out there that likes you for who you are, not how you look.
2006-08-24 19:02:40 · answer #7 · answered by Kenneth S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let me give you some advise. if your boyfriend is giving you a hard time and being emotionally abusive to you it is someone that you do not need in your life. you are young enough that you have plenty of time to find someone that will take you for who you are and treat you like you should be treated. when he calls you stupid it is because you are smarter than him and he wants to make you feel like you are not as smart as he is. you need to get rid of him and look for someone that will treat you as an equal not as someone that is beneath you.
2006-08-24 19:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by wheels_5_66 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey you sound like a nice girl dump him and find a new guy because all he's trying to do is make you really upset about yourself THEN he'll be really nice and you'll go crawling to him and he'll just use you!
2006-08-24 19:27:37 · answer #9 · answered by ♫♪♫TAY-LUR♫♪♫ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg dump him already. i mean you already know the answer if you are posting it because you are second guessing him and he is an a.ss so just dump him and tell him that you can find someone so much better for you and the he should get his act together or else he will never have another steady girlfriend
2006-08-24 19:06:52 · answer #10 · answered by Cat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen ur parents words and that will help u at all time and I think ur boy friend doesnot suit u as he is rigid in his ideas
2006-08-24 19:31:13 · answer #11 · answered by kaveri18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋