Why doe it seem that men now and days only like hoes?

Question

for example two girls could be standing on the bus stop and one would look very classy and the other could look like trash and guys would try to talk to the girl who likes she has nothing giong on for herself.

Answer 1

Because the kind of guy that would pick up a classy girl would not be talking to girls at a bus stop.

Answer 2

That's easy. Men all men want a quick piece of *&(*&^ and go to whom they feel will give it up the easiess. You'll notice the ones that are looking for marriage will go to the nice respectable girl. We are becoming a corrupted race of lost souls and sex, money & power have taken complete control of the world we live in. Thats life hon just keep yourself clean and respectable and the right one will come because they are still out there looking for you, honestly they are its just hard to see and find you thru all the muck in the world. Good Luck Grandma Rosey

Answer 3

Because those men that picked up the "hoe" obviously have something in common with her...I'm sure if he picked her up he's also one too. A classy lady shouldn't be concerned too much about those types of guys...be patient, and the one for you will come to you!

Answer 4

Whoremongers are attracted to the sinners they seek. MEN are not attracted to whores, but to ladies, and the men look for thier mates in the right places, like church, university, professional gathering places,,,

Answer 5

Because society has convinced them that they are normal & it is acceptable to accept them!Plus it is instant sex!Oh well,a truly good girl will find a truly good guy withthe same morals as herself if she keeps the faith!Who wants a ho' chasing moron anyway/They will only cheat & give you aids!

Answer 6

because she is easy.

the classy girls are too good for them & they know it. I wouldn't worry about it. If you want a nice man, go to nice places. It's simple.

Answer 7

The men who dont seem to like only hos are probably thinking why does it seem like all girls nowadays are hos

Answer 8

Because men are always horny and most don't have standards so the either cheat on their girl with a whore, or they just have a lot of one night stands with whores! Who knows.......

Answer 9

(What I say in this message, the words and terms I use, will most likely have a male-tinge and bias to them. It should be known that I purposely do this to show the terminology many men are familiar with and use... simply because society forces them to. I DO NOT wish to offend any one at all. If you are offended by any words I use, I apologize.)

Now a days???

Uh, actually, in most of history, men have "objectified" women into mere sexual teasers and toys...

[All men do this, to an extent - it's natural actually, as by nature our species must have procreate (have sex, spread the seed) to live on, to survive. BUT it does disgust me to see how focused our society is on sex, on image. You see little girls dressing in tight and small clothing, putting on massive amounts of make up, and imitating their favorite female pop music star (who relies on her image because her actual artistic/musical skill is near pathetic). You can't really blame strictly men and their gluttonistic behaviors for what is happening. "We're all to blame."

Self-esteem problems, and general public ignorance, and the media's almost-genious-like exploitation and seduction of the masses is the main cause of all this, I believe. I could be wrong.]

Returning to your specific question, as men "objectify" women, it becomes a game almost. Hunting, almost. Think in terms of animals. Sure, the classy and beautiful women are like a prized piece of meat, a rare cut, but they are hard to catch. A "girl who [looks] like she has nothing going on for herself" wouldn't be as great, but is extremely easy to catch, due to her low self-esteem or social/economical/education status.

I'm just trying to give you an idea of the basis of male thinking when it comes to sex. But "generalizations are dangerous, especially this one," as the great Mark Twain once said. So with that said, remember, that to generalize all men as "hoe-getters" and "cheap-thrill-seekers" is ignorant. Infact, most men don't think with such little consideration, most men are very soft and caring deep inside, but that part of their personality is supressed and packed away because of society's demand on us.

I've referred to society a lot, and I want to say that I don't mean to blame society for our problems. That is ignorant also, for if you think about it, WE are the ones who created society. It's our creation, our system, thus our problem.

Try not to be too cynical about us males. Most of us mean no harm. Also, stay away from the bad ones! ^.^

Answer 10

i have asked that many times myself...... and i finally found the answer.
when you look like trash you are not intimmidating to the guy...he feels like you are in his league. when you look hot the guy is afraid to talk to you because he feels like he has no shot with someone like you.