She is so smart and kind and is very artistic and creative,... She would win friend of the year any day of the week. However, she lets her heart get away from her and these guys take advantage of her. Mostly in an emotional and financial way. I want her to keep that kindness we all love but be tougher with these guys, be more picky. She needs a man who can be tender and kind but strong enough to be a leader because she needs direction in her life. Or is this one of the times I have to step back and let her find out on her own that there are alot af bad guys out there?
2006-08-24 11:23:57 · 4 answers · asked by Missy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What a terrific friend you are!
We all want to protect those we love from getting hurt.
Unfortunately, the only way some people learn their lesson is when they do get hurt.
Sooner or later your friend will figure out that she's got to be less giving and that she deserves better treatment from the guys she dates. Only then will she begin to make better choices about the men in her life.
How lucky she is to have you there when she needs support and encouragement.
2006-08-24 11:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somtimes experience is the best teacher.there are some things that she has 2 learn on her own.plus she is the only person who really knows what she wants.U dont have to totally step back, u can guide her by advising her of a situation before it gets too late or b4 she gets hurt.
2006-08-24 11:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by africanbarbie86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what kind of guys she likes then if u see a guy friend and ask what kind of girls he likes and if she not that kind then go look for someone else.!
2006-08-24 11:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by Marek D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your job to control her love life.
2006-08-24 11:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋