2006-08-24 10:55:21 · 13 answers · asked by Peacetree Suale 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're living with the wrong person.
2006-08-24 10:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by Joe-slim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, I feel like a broken record here. Buy a book called "Getting the Love You Want" by Harville Hendrix. There is lots of good information there. Also look into a CD set called Understanding Men/Celebrating Women. I think the company is called PAX.
It is all on the internet. Lots and lots of answers. Before I walked down the aisle again I did lots of research. Of all the 'stuff' I sifted through these were the two best sources for information.
When they say information is power, that's not an understatement! You will get the answers you are looking for!!
2006-08-24 18:06:56 · answer #2 · answered by godessathena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well being around a person for such a long time can get to you..or them before you even know it. I say take some time away and then wen you do come back talk about what happend. Maybe you could fix things.
2006-08-24 17:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by Bo Beeta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't unless the people that are living together allow the walls to be constructed. Somebody is screwing things up.
2006-08-24 17:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when you live with someone the only place you can have truly personal space is internally. You would die if you had no walls at all.
2006-08-24 18:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by dick_coxnbutz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're taking 2 different personalities, their habits, their stuff, their ways of doing things, adding in financial issues, sharing responsibilities and "stuff" and it OFTEN causes issues...
It's not easy to live with someone (esp someone that's not family)...it takes a lot of compromise, sharing, and understanding...
2006-08-24 17:58:16 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only walls there hon are the ones holding and forming the dwelling you are in. Otherwise it is one of you that is distancing yourself from the other.
2006-08-24 17:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you have no real roe other than roommate and free sex kitten, maybe you should work on what role ou really want to play and then those walls will come down and you going down might help also HA HA
2006-08-24 17:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by tpepper22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because, usually people are set in their ways and are unwilling to compromise. You learn who someone REALLY is when you live with them.
2006-08-24 17:57:49 · answer #9 · answered by SoShyFyi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You weren't ready for that step in the relationship.
2006-08-24 17:59:21 · answer #10 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋