i am in Jr. High and there is this girl who i hate and she is in 3 of my classes, she still thinks we r friends ( but we r not ) !!!! what should i do ?
2006-08-24 10:31:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in News & Events ➔ Other - News & Events
I'm in Junior High, too. Believe me, there's girls like that everywhere!!! What I do is just try to ignore the person. After a while she'll get the hint. You could also try talking to her (nicely) or introducing her to someone else that would be a perfect friend for her. You could even try being friends with her again. Who knows? Anything is possible.
2006-08-24 10:40:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, hate is a strong word. Do you really hate her or just dislike her? Second, I would examine the basis for my dislike--why do you dislike her? Third, is there anything she can do to change the circumstances that cause you to dislike her? Fourth, is there anything you should be doing about your attitudes toward her in terms of changing them? After those considerations, if you still dislike her and cannot think of anything that would change it, you should tell her and not lead her along--its called being honest with her. Doesn't really do much for her except prevent her from being embarassed when she learns you never liked her, but it should do wonders for your self esteem to have gone through that process and been upfront and forthright with that other person. That's my view of it anyway.
2006-08-24 17:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by William E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be nice. It's not that hard. Someday she may grow up to be real pretty and popular and you'll want her on your side. Or someday she could be your boss!
2006-08-24 17:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Mouse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋