that I wanted to be a teen mom? What would you guys say?
2006-08-24 10:20:52 · 16 answers · asked by K 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Don't bash me! I'm not actually thinking of doing it gahh...notice it was a hypothetical question.
2006-08-24 10:30:05 · update #1
Pretty much you asked the question and they gave you the answer to your question. Whether offensive or not. It is an opinion.
However, I would say I disagree with it and feel that a person needs to care for an infant 24/7 for at least a week. They will start to think twice of how hard it is, what they will be missing in their teen years and how it can be unfair to the infant.
Then the second stage is having a toddler 24/7 for at least a week. This includes buying the diapers, food, toilet training and behavioral modification issue's.
Very tough for an adult first timer. Even tougher for a teen who don't have access to a lot of things adults do (done with school so only focus on work. Those who are single mothers or fathers can have it really hard). Those who don't have family support, pretty much makes parenting extremly hard.
Having a child is a blessing to those who wish to have children in their life time. If want to be a parent, have a child when you know you can raise this child to the best of the best you can. Not settle for what you have and not able to offer much by being inpatient to have a child.
2006-08-24 13:12:38 · answer #1 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you mature enough to take care of a child? Can you support a baby, do you have a steady job? Is the father gonna support the baby?
If you can answer yes to those questions I would say maybe you could be a teen mom and be succesful. But think long and hard about it before you actually do it.
2006-08-24 17:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a step into reality. You are way to young. You need to finish school not worry about a baby. If you cannot take care of yourself without the help from your parents then there is no way you can take care of a baby with no job, money, medical insurance, a car, your own house and what not. Stop rushing to be grown. You are just a CHILD not an ADULT.
2006-08-24 17:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think thats a great idea
Cuz its a big responsible I think
But who am I to say this
Its your life choose how you want to live it
Do what you want to do
But I don't advice you to that
Unless you want to destroy your life or you may not
Take a moment and think twice
Just remmeber its your life choose how you live it but choose wisly
2006-08-24 17:36:36 · answer #4 · answered by Krazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ready 4 the child then go ahead but i wouldn't
2006-08-24 18:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
rethink yout thoughts...its all fun and games until you have to grow up and take responsibility for another human being. Its not like playing dolls!!
2006-08-24 17:23:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are way too young. you have too much else to be worrying about. you don't need to be putting this much responsibility in your hands right now. worry about your grades, not being a mother.
is what I would say
2006-08-24 18:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by one_sera_phim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well if you did not finish high school then how will you even support your child if you would be able to get a good job. stop being so stupid and finish up school girl!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-24 17:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by Butterfly Beauty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not wise
1st finish school
2nd get a job
3rd move into your place
4th maybe be a parent
2006-08-24 17:23:37 · answer #9 · answered by was2was 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im fixing to be a teen mom and i wish i wasent..i have my whole life ahead of me..i wish i wasent preg. but i am...so i think i would say it would be stupid to want to be a teen mom..but its all up to you!
2006-08-24 17:59:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋