2006-08-24 10:18:29 · 27 answers · asked by mydenali12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No. If he wants a threesome, it means that he thinks there's something lacking in your relationship. And, he won't find it by getting a third party involved.
Just dump the guy and move on. You deserve someone who will love and respect you.
2006-08-24 10:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have but I wasn't involved with anyone neither where the other parties.I don't know about them but I wouldn't be comfortable having a threesome while in a relationship.Aforesome where there is a woman for him and a man for me.But one or the other NO WAY.I don't do women,and I am far too possesive.Try asking him for a foursome,or that the threesome be you him and another man,,,watch his reaction it'll give you some clue about what he really has on his mind.If he isn't okay with some other guy screwing you,why should you be okay with him screwing some other woman.Unless of couse,neither of you care for each other that deeply.
2006-08-24 17:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by girlqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do YOU want to do? It doesn't matter if others here have had them or not...you'll hear stories of how much fun it was, and stories of how it ruined their relationship.
Bottom line...don't do anything you don't want to do...however if this is something that appeals to you, then give it some consideration...
Here are some things to think about...if either you or "your man" are the jealous or insecure type, a threesome isn't a good idea...make sure you are both secure in yourselves and your relationship...decide on any 'rules' ahead of time (will everything be allowed or limits? can he have intercourse with her or no? oral or no? you get the picture...)
If you do it, enjoy...but don't feel forced or obligated...doing it "for him" is likely to be the beginning of the end for y'all...
2006-08-24 17:26:11 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do it, do it on a vacation in another state with a complete stranger that niether of you will ever see again. Usually when a 3rd person comes into the sex life it's over. It opens up a new host of in-securites for both parties.
I never hear you make those sound with me, you went down on her to long, why did you c*m in her, or why do you swallow just dumb stuff. They are fun with strangers and then see ya later.
2006-08-24 17:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have had a 3sum but it was with to girls but if u wanted to do it he would want two other girls and u might want two guys and there will be just a big confusion on how u and him wanna do it but good luck on that though ok
2006-08-24 17:24:37 · answer #5 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have thought about it been it probably wont be all that good because the other woman and your boyfriend want let it be just a one night thing they will contiune to mess around behind your back and in the end they may even become girlfriend and boyfriend just keep ya man to yourself and keep any major heartbreaking problems from happening.
2006-08-24 17:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by cupcake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He has someone in mind that he wants to have sex with and he might leave you if you do it because he like the other female better. I would leave him. (I am a male and I would never ask my wife for a threesome)
2006-08-24 17:22:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ive done it a few times... the first time was weird... but after that it was awesome!! my wife and i love it.
If your into it.. go for it. if you like it.. great.. if you dont.. then thats ok to. Just make sure you have a few personal rules and keep everything out in the open.
2006-08-24 17:22:10 · answer #8 · answered by ryanlas 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you do it (although adventurous) and i've experienced it before, your boyfriend will lean toward the other person (especially if its a girl) and kinda shut you out a bit. and the awkwardness of the situation is horrible. just think about it a bit. i know if my boyfriend asked me, and we been together for 2 years, i'd say no.
2006-08-24 17:21:42 · answer #9 · answered by Gemini 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him! As harsh as it sounds he is no longer satisfied w/just you, someone else looks better to him! Get rid of the creep!
2006-08-24 17:30:49 · answer #10 · answered by Pildi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋