my boyfriend said he only stayed with me for 5 years because of our child who is 4 years old. i recently moved back with my parents until my apartment opens up next month. BUT he still wants to be friends... i have severely hurt feelings because of all this, its hurt for me to be around him right now. should i just stand back? or should i attempt to mend our broken friendship? other advise would be wonderful also.. i'm just confused and hurt. also i want to do the best for my son (doesnt everyone) so i try to stay positive. thanks...
2006-08-24 10:15:43 · 2 answers · asked by justmeandmyboy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Try to remain friends with him. It will be so much easier for you because he will always be part of your child's life. I understand the hurt feelings, you gave him the greatest gift and he isn't responding in the way you want.
2006-08-24 10:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm sorry that you are hurting there sweetie. But thats how many guys feel. I mean they have a relationship with a girl and then they have a kid. And sometimes it doesn't work out but he will stay there for the child and not the woman anymore out of moral oligation. I know thats a stab, but mend the friendship for your child's sake. You don't want him to since that his mommy and daddy are being mean to each other over him. I mean its not like he won't get the same support and love from you both rather you are together or not. Just make arrangements for your bf to come over and see him or take him over to his place.
2006-08-24 17:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋