he watches some whores on the internet and does his job.
and yes he doesn't sleep with me after his little routine, I did confront him a couple of times but he denies, i give him whatever he asks in bed but for some reason he masterbates EVERY SINGLE DAY, is he SICK? I think he needs help.....i mean come one if u dont have any1 that naotherthing, but for a month alredy he stoped even going o bed with me at the same time, we always go to bed together, but he stays up late pretending his watching a movie........HELP!!!!!!!
man please give ur truthful opinion.
thanx in advance :o)
2006-08-24 09:57:46 · 18 answers · asked by daysofmylife1 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Well when we do sleep together everything is great, the thing is i cant even masterbate him or whatever because he acts likr his watching tv and stuff and im usually so tiered i go to sleep like at 1 am and he goes at 3 am, i cant really wait up for him that long, it use to be every 2 days now its like 1 a week :o(
2006-08-25 04:21:16 · update #1
A study that was conducted concluded that about 90% of all men masturbate. Men have a higher level of sexual desire and find masturbation as a good way to relieve those desires. Most married men will still masturbate. It does not mean that they do not love or are not attracted to their partner. Masturbation is easier to relieve their own sexual desire without having to worry about whether or not their partner was also pleased.
2006-08-24 11:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by lignebur72 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You cannot and should not demand that another person not masturabate. Even a spouse doesn't have that right, I think, but the other behaviors like using the porno and lying to you, etc... are within your rights to object to.
It is a compulsive behavior like overeating or gambling. These types of behaviors are the most difficult type to break. The best you can do is make it toally to clear to him that his behavior is unacceptable. But you have to be very specific about what you do and do not expect from him. If he agrees to your reuquests you have formed an agreement. Remind him that he is making an agreement with you and give him another chance to back out.
Most likely he will break the agreement. Then you have to confront him and be honest that he has broken the agreement, and that you don't want to be around someone who is breaking agreements with you, because it undermines your trust of him.
THis stuff is never easy, eventually you have to do a gut check and decide whether or not you can put up with the behavior.
2006-08-24 10:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-08 02:24:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is he really watching--just girls or girl/guy action? If it is girl/guy, he may be getting off watching the guys, since he seems to have reduced interest in you. If that's the case, he may be turning bisexual or gay. A married guy beating off every day, and not servicing his wife is not normal. He is either disturbed by something, has lost his attraction to you, or going over to the other side as I mentioned before.
2006-08-24 10:05:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well He stopped going to bed with you. Are you really giving him everything??? I wonder why you didn't mentioned "even masturbated him " if that's what he likes? Have you checked your vagina, is it like sandpaper? do you lubricate? He may have a STD.
Insist you two see a Dr. or a Lawyer.
You two are not communicating, or having intercourse. why stay together?
2006-08-24 10:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All guys do it. You can't let the pipes get backed up. How often are you having sex with him? If he has to jack it everyday, it must not be that often. You know, it could be worse. At least he's not going outside the house to get it, just in the bathroom all by himself.
2006-08-24 10:01:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he has a problem if what you say is true. Ask the question, if you do EVERYTHING for him in the bedroom, then why does he need to w1nk every day. ask him to disconnect the internet for a while
2006-08-24 10:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by giddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is completeley normal with a guy to mastebate. Don't worry about that. It's a tempted feeling for sex. Is your vagina like sandpaper or something? um if you dont feel the connection get divorced
2006-08-24 10:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does he use the Internet in the bathroom?
Mastubating daily is not unusual or sick.
If he is doing it to the exclusion of sex with you there is a problem. Talk to him and ask to see a councellor that specialises in marrital sexual problems.
2006-08-24 10:02:55 · answer #9 · answered by patti_felz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to dress sexier, talk sexier, and take his attention. You may change your hair style and wear mini skirts when you go out or at home. You will see the difference.
2006-08-24 10:15:23 · answer #10 · answered by echosphere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋