I told a friend a few months ago some very personnel details about things that were wrong in my relationship as I felt I was losing the plot and had no one to turn to ( I could not speak to my partner) she also told me about similar problems she had with her partner. We have since all been on holiday together and she ruined the whole thing she was horrible to me and my children ruining the whole thing. We havent really spoke since we got back as when the holiday subject was brought up she denide doing anything wrong even though i know 100% she was nasty too the children and said horrible things about me. She has now gone and told my partner what I said to her with lots of extras adding on which if true are potentially very damming to him. He is extremely angry which I find hurtfull cause some of the stuff was true and why should I be banned from trying to express my feelings and why should he believe her over me about them untrue things Should I tell her partner about it get my own bak
2006-08-24 09:52:39 · 8 answers · asked by stressed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
cut all ties with this nasty woman and concentrate on building your relationship with hubby.You say 'banned from expressing your feelings' this is a bit worring. We all need someone to confide in.Life with kids and partners can be difficult at times.
2006-08-24 09:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by ashley d 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't lower yourself to her level its her loss not yours to lose a decent friend will be like losing my right hand so get on with your life and forget the bad things from the past try seeking help with problems at home because you don't want the kids caught up in a tug of war and he still wont compromise get rid of him too
2006-08-24 09:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by Coley61 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly she isn't your friend. Cut her loose, and he needs to grow up. Personally, I would question his listening to her after she treated his kids so bad. Tell her partner if you want, I am into alittle payback. Just make sure it is all true no lies. Then cut them off, you don't need them in your life.
2006-08-24 09:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your partner the truth, don't give the other person another thought, your better than her.
2006-08-24 09:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's padded it this much then your partner isn't going to believe her anyway. Rise above it and find another mate, she's trouble!
2006-08-25 09:59:07 · answer #5 · answered by gerbiltamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't be mean? there is no need for it? If you wish to tell them, tell them because you wish to be honest with them. Not because you want revenge.
2006-08-24 10:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by pixie007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT BRING YOURSELF DOWN TO HER LEVEL, JUST TELL EVERYONE SHE HAS A DOSE!
2006-08-24 10:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by Braindead! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth***************************
2006-08-28 04:44:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋