Me and this guy met in high school and i found out last month that he slpept with my used to be friend. She used the excuse that just because they went together in 4th grade that gave her the right to do what she did. I didn't know either one of them way back then. Me and him started dating in high school when she found out that it was him that i was dating she said nothing and i thought it was cool anyway because we are grown now and 4th grade isn't a relationship anyway. Her and i knew each other since 7th grade and i would not have thought she would have taken it that far even though me and him were not togther at the time. We were off and on for 4 years and she knew this and we talked everyday. So now me, her, nor him talks anymore because of this who is the blame?
2006-08-24 09:44:14 · 13 answers · asked by jelly b 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
wow....some friend. I say good riddence to both of the trash.
2006-08-24 09:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were broken up at the time he was fair game. He had sex too not just her. You got back together fine, but you can't have a say on what he does or with who when you are not a couple, same goes for you too. She could have turned him down but she probably really liked him and saw her chance. She waited until you broke up not while you were togther, that says alot about her. Off and on again relationships usually end up off all together at some point, I don't blame her for trying to be happy with him. She didn't break you up!
2006-08-24 09:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart when a relationship is over, it is just that over. People move on, sometimes they revisit old relationships. If this friend had really wanted him she would have made a move. She or they may have saw something in each other they never noticed. Thank God that they did not fool around while you were together. It is time for you to move on and not loose friends.
2006-08-24 09:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by wordinc2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not married to him, he can sleep with anyone he chooses. You don't own him.
The real question is why you'd date & make best friends with people with such weak morals (casual sex = not cool). I'd ditch them both and find better people to spend my time with.
2006-08-24 09:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by Funchy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sleep with her too so to even out the score ;)
2006-08-24 09:46:03 · answer #5 · answered by Carl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y r u butting into their bisnuess if u didn't no them back them and u brok ^, get over it *****
2006-08-24 09:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by Katie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on with your life, get over it!!!!
2006-08-24 09:50:09 · answer #7 · answered by happygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she should have told you, definitely. Also, why didn't he tell you?
2006-08-24 13:41:46 · answer #8 · answered by jjdanca18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump them both
2006-08-24 12:57:10 · answer #9 · answered by greeneyedraven04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join in what can it hurt
2006-08-24 09:48:23 · answer #10 · answered by tater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋