Used to be so highly sexed, demanded it 3 times a day, liked all types of sex and willing to try anything and everything. Had 3 kids, 2 in past 2 years and don't EVER feel like sex at all. Is this normal or am I all Sexed out?
2006-08-24 09:36:09 · 24 answers · asked by Gypsie 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-08-24 09:39:36 · update #1
2 kids under 2??!!!!! It's a miracle you're still capable of coherent conversation, let alone think about sex. You are simply knackered and sex is too tiring. You will feel sexy again, when they are less demanding of your time and energy, probably when they are 16 (lol, only kidding) Take it steady. ~;-}
2006-08-24 09:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by Pookie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think once we take on the responsibility of caring for children and still maintain all our prior responsibilities we just get tired. I know that with two kids and turning 30 I would opt for a nap over a quickie any day of the week...lmao.However, if you don't feel that is the case see a doctor. Let them know what is going on. Many things can cause a change in sexual appetite. Stress, depression, hormonal imbalances......the list goes on and on.
2006-08-24 09:41:38 · answer #2 · answered by geni 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to relax yourself.For to feel sexual, you do not need sex the same times always(3 or more).You need to relax,calm down,do sex differently as you did before,starting again,step by step and you will enjoy it again and again.Many couples have the same problem.After they do too much sex, they are saturated enough and they do not want anymore,because everything is boring,they feel they knew everything,they feel sick about it. The only way out is relax,few days, and do it never in the same way,start again step by step (sex is present all your life).Good luck.
2006-08-24 09:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yup...you used it all, and now it's gone. That's why I'm a frigged shrew...so when I'm 80, I'll be hot to trot in the old persons home. Good God woman...you can't USE sex up...that's like saying that your vagina, if you don't use it enough, will fall off of you and your uterus will dry up and decay.
You're going through a dry spell...try massages, baths, sensual music, things of that nature to get you in the mood.
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2006-08-24 09:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
intercourse force interior of reason complicated, and much extra so for females. it somewhat is attainable that as you're becoming to be previous which you're entering right into a miles less hormonally violent era and that as you agree somewhat your intercourse force will drop. to declare which you wanted/necessary to masturbate each and every night is definitely unusual for a woman and it somewhat is attainable which you're basically mellowing to a extra common point. That being suggested, it is likewise somewhat attainable which you have different issues affecting your intercourse force alongside with being depressed or in all risk the long distance dating is affecting you. in case you began any drugs or birthcontrol that would additionally impact intercourse force in some exciting techniques.
2016-09-29 22:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're tired and probably going through some changes. You didn't mention your age, yet I can only assume your P.M.S.ing, that usually starts in the early thirty's. Take a breather and enjoy the kids. You'll get your libido back. With proper exercise, vitamins, and his slow hand.
2006-08-24 09:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The kids and other things just got you out of the mood and habit. You and your other half just need to try and make this a habit again. Both of you might start being happier again if you do. Just start off by flirting with each other more.
2006-08-24 09:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by ronnny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hon, 3 kids in 2 years is enough to deaden anyone's sex drive. You're normal, don't worry.
2006-08-24 09:38:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm 41 and I'll tell you my libido seems to run in cycles or phases...for months (or years) I'll have a high sex drive...then for a period of time I'll have low or none.
Don't give up on it completely but if it's particularly troubling, talk to your doctor. There may be something that can help you get your desire back instead of waiting for it to return on its own.
2006-08-24 09:40:04 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOu are so normal - I have 3 kids also. I think you are probably tired and when you get to bed you want to sleep and that's it. Kids sometimes suck that right out of you.
Try going on a romantic night with your guy AWAY from the kids and the chaos and see if that helps..........
2006-08-24 09:39:34 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋