How many times a day do you say I Love You or Kiss your spouse? See details....?

Question

I once read a study that said men and women that are in longterm relationships are more successful at work when they say I Love You and give each other a kiss then those who don't. How many times a day do you say I love you to your spouse and give them a kiss? Do you still say it when you are fighting? They also say that you should never go to bed mad because it will affect your sleep and your job performance the next day. Do you go to bed mad?

Answer 1

When the kissing and I love you"s stop from her, she eventually pushed me away. No matter what I said or did it was not good enough for her. She fall out of love with me. How sad that she missed it, she lived by her feelings not her committment and lost so much more--me.
A good dose of sincerity behind your expressions go alot longer than the many times of it!

Answer 2

Every morning before I leave for work, every night before I go to bed and as often as I can between! I would say I kiss my spouse about 30 times a day and say I love you at least 10 times a day.

And this is after almost 10 years of marriage!

Good luck and stay in love and show it!

Answer 3

We say I love you in the morning and when we go to bed. We say it on the phone, and when one of us walks out the door. So maybe 15 times a day. Don't go to bed mad ever, it's the worst feeling in the world. What if you left in the morning and didn't say you loved them because you were mad and they had an accident and died? You didn't get to tell them you loved them. I couldn't live with that.

Answer 4

At the very least, three times a day, but usually more. Fighting is very limited, we seldom fight for more than a couple of hours, and we never go to bed mad. Life is short and you never know when the one you love might not be there.

Answer 5

I tell my husband that I love him at least 5 times a day, kiss him at least 10 times a day. As for not going to bed mad, we try not to but sometimes it happens.

Answer 6

I'm not that I love you everyday type.Also the old lady does not stress it , but once in a while she would ask me do i love her and i do answer that. I do not leave the house ever without giving her a kiss. So i guess that mean more to her,plus she does it also when she leaves the house.

Answer 7

My husband is a truck driver, so when he is home we always kiss hello and good bye, and say I Love you. When ever we are on the phone when he is on the road, we talk 2-4 times a day. Always say I love you

Answer 8

My boyfriend and I say that we love each other everytime we talk every morning and everynight. I have gone to sleep upset because of something he did but that's the night I don't get sleep because we stay up talking about the problem and straining out all the curves. etc

Answer 9

this is a good question..me and my boyfriend are currently fighting right now...and yes, it does affect your job performance cuz i was pissed when i got up the next morning, and i was pissed all day at work today...i mean, b4 our fight, we would say "I Love You" at least twice a day when we spoke to each other throughout the day..but now were just pissed at one another, so there's none of that going on today..lol..but yes, saying that does make your day go alot smoother...

Answer 10

we say i love you after every phone conversation and when ever one of us is leaving the other one home.when we fight we are to angry to talk so not very often when we fight.we kiss al the time anytime.Going to bed angry doesn't affect me as long as i get a good night sleep.Then again he work nights and i work day so we don't get to see much of each other.