my birthday is now near soon but i did not have a party for my 13th b-day and i decided to ask mom about a hotel party d think this be ok ?! cause there is a indoor pool and every thing and i kind of want to envite boys trust me they would be in differnt rooms but i still want them to stay the night what do u think ?
2006-08-24 09:04:40 · 31 answers · asked by sprinkle0girl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
good thing youre not my kid, cause you wouldnt like the answer =)
2006-08-24 09:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by wilowdreams 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No.
You are way too young for this sort of thing. The expense is too great. Who would pay for the rooms? Are you going to have one parent there to supervise every two children? (and at 13 and 14, that is what you are, children)
Hotels do not keep their pools open all night. Most close off the pool at 10 or 11 PM. Hotels also do not want a bunch of 13 and 14 year olds running around at all hours of the night, making noise. You know that people actually pay money to sleep there, right??
If you were my kid, any party you would have would have all of the kids in one room under constant adult supervision. Now, if you would have a problem with that, then obviously you are wanting to do things your parents (and other kids parents) wouldnt approve of.
2006-08-24 16:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by peytonbarclay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, no no no. Too young. I know you want to be grown up and do everything NOW! I was like that too, but think about this: if you do everything now, what exciting stuff will be left for later? And if that doesn't work remember this rule: The only thing that happens after midnight is trouble. You know it, I know it. If you want all that fun stuff like the pool, then book a party room at the hotel instead of a hotel room and havr fun. There's no need for a boy-girl sleep-over, unless of course you're looking for trouble.
2006-08-24 16:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say no. Any parents of the kids you invite, if they are good parents and responsible, probably will not allow their kids to attend unless they know you and your family and know you are good people. I would NEVER let my kids attend a hotel party, even with a pool, unless it was a relative or I knew the family very well. If you decide to have a party there, maybe it would be best to just have the girls spend the night and have the parents pick up their sons at night. Your mom could spend the night with you girls.
2006-08-24 16:33:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. I've heard of people having a hotel party as a birthday party for their kid in the winter just so that they can have a pool party. It's usually NOT an overnight party -- just a day thing.
However, I think that having an overnight party in a hotel with 14 year old boys and girls is just asking for trouble though.
2006-08-24 16:12:59 · answer #5 · answered by HoosierMommy06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with MOM 2 BE. It can be a good idea to have a hotel party with boys and everything, BUT make sure your parents are there otherwise Trouble will find you. And trust me it isn't worth it. I was in a Foster Home when I was 14, and for my 15th birthday I had a hotel party, but my Foster parents were there.
2006-08-24 16:09:41 · answer #6 · answered by Mambers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your parents were there then it would be okay, i dont thibk the hotel would want to be liable for a bunch of loony 13 and 14 year olds so i dont think ud be able to spend the night. and if you do spend the night alone without any parents around.........your parebnts are crazy. boys are boys, somethign will happen even if they are in another room.
why dont u just have a sleepover and watch scary movies? thse are always fun instead of some hotel with a bunch of other people around that u dont know
2006-08-24 16:17:07 · answer #7 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my one friend always did that for her birthday from like 10 on but there was always a parent there(well a couple) and there was no boys. If you really want boys there then just do it at day time and have them go home early and the girls can spend the night.
2006-08-24 18:24:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my birthday is in December and I always wanted a pool party so my mom would get me a motel room. I think it's fine as
long as a adult is around. As far as the boys staying the night in another room If your moms willing to pay for 2 rooms then cool. So Happy Birthday and hope you have a good time.
2006-08-24 16:11:46 · answer #9 · answered by crystalzabia 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it is not especially if there will be boys there...boys only want one thing and we do not need a dozen of 13-14 year old girls getting knocked up. Just have a regular party at your house somewhere.
2006-08-24 17:45:27 · answer #10 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as a 13 yr. old...
i would say a hotel is a little bit too much... try something like a pool party. or something else....
Happy Early Birthday
2006-08-24 16:42:10 · answer #11 · answered by ♥xoxo♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋