Should I go over my friends house for a nice dinner (free) and to see her sister's newborn baby OR should I go out with this guy I have been talking to who I am not sure if he is interested in me; this would only be our second date?
PS: The friend asked me over first about a week ago , but I forgot to tell him that I already made plans.
Thanks for your answers.
2006-08-24 08:45:39 · 8 answers · asked by say it isn't so... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well it depends.... How jazzed are you to see your friend's sister's newborn? If it was your friend's baby, I would definitely go without any thought if it was the first time you were going to see the baby.
If you like this guy and want to find out if there is a future, even if the future is a third date, then I would go.
If I was in your shoes I would go with the date. Just tell your friend what is up and I am sure they will understand.
Just my .02 cents worth...
2006-08-24 08:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by Fugazi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go to your friends house becauseshe'll more than likely be dissapointed in you for first of all not coming to see the baby and second of all to go see some guy that you barely know. I'm sure she wouldn't be that mad though because you could always see the baby some other time. I'm sure that guy wouldn't be upset either because if he was really interested in you, and not only talking to you for one thing, then he's have the patience and understanding if you do go to your friends house.
my advice to you though is to tell the guy about the situation and I'm sure he'll understand and plan yall date for some other day. If he doesn't want to plan some other day, and isn't cooperating, then I say he's really not worth your timeand effort to even worry about.
Do the right thing girl!!!
2006-08-24 15:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by shaigirl1117 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go over to your friends house because she will be there when you need her the most and if you ditch her for a guy that you don't even know likes you then she may not be!
2006-08-24 15:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by Alida Paige 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The correct thing is to go to your friend's home, since she asked, and you accepted first. Explain to the guy that it had slipped your mind that you had a prior commitment and could you reschedule. If he is really interested, he will, and if not, well, then you'll know, won't you?
2006-08-24 16:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by pessimoptimist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go over to to ur friend's house. Since ur guy isnt interested in you, you might get bored. You dont wanna regret for not going.
2006-08-24 15:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by Tushi K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go out with this guy to see if you are attracted to him. because you will have plenty of time to go to the friends house to see the baby. this could be your only chance for true love.
2006-08-24 15:51:57 · answer #6 · answered by ky angel 1952 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go to the friend beings you said you would go there first and go on the date a diffrent time
2006-08-24 16:00:11 · answer #7 · answered by jennylilac2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go see your friend's baby.
keep him guessing, but apologize profusely for your mix-up. try and set another date - it might make his feelings clearer to you.
at any rate, you made plans before you set your date with him. gotta go with what you first promised.
2006-08-24 15:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by kwanyin_mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋