2006-08-24 08:41:23 · 38 answers · asked by n_jevne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
im 16 and my gf is 13 and we love eachother more than anything and yes i can drive and i could buy a house at my age and i have a job and i could suport my family and the weding would wate till she gets maried
2006-08-24 09:08:50 · update #1
uuuhh... let me think... what decade is this... uuuuhhhh... HELL YES 13 IS TOOOOO flippin' YOUNG!!!!!! If you can't even spell WEDDING correctly, what makes you think you're ready to throw one??????!!!!!!!
2006-08-24 13:34:31 · answer #1 · answered by Kitten2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES YES YES YES. At 13 you are still a kid, how on earth can you manage to convince even a kids brain that you will know who you will be, where you will be, what you will be and who you will want to be with when you are 25 or 35 or 45 and marriage is FOREVER, til DEATH. Imagine all the things you will miss. There is so much out there that at 13 you don't even know exists yet. Its a sweet idea that you think you care about somebody that much but I'm afraid it just isn't realistic.
2006-08-24 08:47:50 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO that is too funny...but no u r too young and she is too young for u...at ur age u can meybe save for a house but u r toio young to rent or buy u have to be at least 18...but even then she would be like what 16? her parents would have to sign away and do u really think they r goin to let their little girl mess up her life for puppy love? come on now u should kno that
2006-08-24 09:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by gus gus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, you can have a relationship at 13 without getting engaged. So just keep the relationship going and maybe when your older, much older, you may realize that you and that person have grown apart, or that you have grown further together. Just wait and live your life for now.
2006-08-24 08:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by ♫ singin_gurl1200 ♫ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes bc u have the rest of ur life to do what ever u want and trust me no one is really ready to get married at the age 13 but it is ur choice but think long and hard b4 u make ur mind up but good luck what ever happens and make sure that is the person u really love and if u wanna spend the rest of ur life with ok peace out
2006-08-24 08:47:43 · answer #5 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AT 13 you aren't allowed to have a job drive a car buy a house have bills in your name. So how can you even think about getting married?!!!
2006-08-24 08:47:31 · answer #6 · answered by Not Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 is way too young. If you both agree then wait until you are both legal and get married then. Save to buy a home right now and get married when she is a little older.
2006-08-24 12:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TOOOOOO YOUNG. This will only end in tears for both of you. Just wait. You guys are both kids, especially her. 13 is way too young to even think about getting married. So is 16 for that matter. Keep in mind, if you guys have sex, technically that is rape, even if she wants to.
2006-08-24 09:16:08 · answer #8 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, 13 is way too young to be engaged.
2006-08-24 09:05:51 · answer #9 · answered by lavenderroseford 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your ages I have a feeling its just a puppy type love.I got preg. at 15 and married before I turned 16.Ya know something,I am still married to him but very unhappily for over 20 yrs.
2006-08-24 10:06:45 · answer #10 · answered by marywels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is, you are young and should enjoy being a teenager not being strapped down you are going to regret it. you may be in love or think you are but you have a whole world to explore. and if you are going to go to college why be strapped down its suppose to be the time of your life right now. to young just enjoy life right now.
2006-08-24 09:08:41 · answer #11 · answered by hopelovesu2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋