My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now, and I have this "issue". Everytime we have sex, she reaches orgasim long before I do, and then she is done and wants to goto bed. I know, this is probably what happenes to most females, but it's happening to me now. I have never not finished a "job" on her- everytime without fail, but for me it's like 35% of the time if even. She always promises something in the near future, like tomorrow or the next day, but never comes through. Do I have a right to be frustrated with her? I've tried talking about it and she says "I'll take care of you tomorrow" each time. What should I do?
2006-08-24 08:33:16 · 7 answers · asked by yazukka 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, you have the right to think that is unfair. .... Obviously she doesn't seem to care that you are not satisfied. .... Maybe she could give you get you all worked up with some oral first, then it might not take you as long to 'finish'.... OR she chould be a trooper ,hang with you a little longer and she just might have multiples.
This is a dilemma... good luck.
2006-08-24 08:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by Why do you ask? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you say "this is probably what happens to most females." You couldn't be more wrong, just to let you know.
Secondly, she may be faking it because she wants to get it over with. The reason I say this is because I feel if she really cared, she would either wait to orgasm, or go a second round so that you could only finish. Not only is that FAIR, but it also shows that she cares about you, and isn't just in it for her.
Ask her. Give her an ultimatum. Equality is always key in a relationship, and she is not caring of your needs.
2006-08-24 15:38:45 · answer #2 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I'd like to say good for her because so many men never finish the job for their girl!
Secondly it is very unfair of her not to let you reach Orgasm and you need to sit and talk with her about it because sooner or later you'll find someone who will let you finish.
2006-08-24 15:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by cutiepie81289 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is unfair, she's not showing any consideration for your needs especially since it appears you're taking care of hers, try talking with her about it and if she really loves you she will wake up and stop being so selfish.
If that does'nt work try drumrbOy's idea ;p
That will get her attention! And if that does'nt work it sounds like you may be too good for her. ; )
2006-08-24 17:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by gixxerfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. The next time you have sex, pump it until she's just about to reach orgasm, then stop, pull out and jerk off on her face; if she gets pissed off, tell her, "Now you know how I've felt all this time."
2. Have another girlfriend lined up after she dumps you.
2006-08-24 15:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now you know how we women feel a lot of the time! I think it's unfair of her to do that to you ... in fact, it's mean!
Next time, wait a little longer to pleasure her.
2006-08-24 15:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the "issue" is you focusing on the "job" so much and you should go "find" someone who can really "service" you. "Word."
2006-08-24 15:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋