2006-08-24 08:26:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HER!!!
2006-08-24 08:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by Not Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all remember y u split. If u r still in love with her sit her down and talk to her about the relationship. It is not fair to either one of u to get together just for sex...unless that is what both of u want. But from the sound of it that isn't what u want. U must tell her how u feel about it and whether u still love her and want to work out ur problems. If she isn't willing and she just wants the sex, let her go.
2006-08-24 15:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by nonnaluv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the old... "Well,. it's better than nothing..." bit. It's dangerous and yet its done all the time. You're her familiar territory... You both know where the other stands... it's not that she want a relationship or that you want one either... it's just more comfortable than heading off into the "unknown". One draw-back... The sign outside will say, "No vacancy". She's holding down that other side of the bed... Which means no one else gets to park there. Works until someone wants that space. Check yourself... Sometimes it's better to have a vacancy ready, than a tenate you don't want. Feel me? LOL
2006-08-24 15:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by casual247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situation can eventually bite you in the @#$ in the long run. I had the same situation years ago, however, I realized that we were just using each other and that no attachments were involved what so ever.I think if you really want to start a new life for your self and really want to be liberated from the relationship you should stop now. Now, keep in mind if you still have feelings for her your setting a trap for yourself. If you decide to ignore her sexual hunger just be prepared for her to get sexually involved with someone Else.
2006-08-24 15:41:10 · answer #4 · answered by skawp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why did you 2 even split up? seems like someone is just using someone!If you like it who cares use the ho if you dont then tell her to go give her wore out stuff to someone else your done with it or else you would still be with her.
2006-08-24 15:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure the two of you don't want to still be together? If not, then tell her to stop coming over.
2006-08-24 15:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by mev852 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you so much, then tell her not to come over anymore. You split up for a reason.
2006-08-24 15:42:19 · answer #7 · answered by CLM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop sleeping together if you expect to seperate or get over her . You should feel used that you weren't good enugh to stay married to but you are good for sex. That would hurt my feelings personally. Move On
2006-08-24 15:33:51 · answer #8 · answered by Raineybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to do this anymore, tell her this is going to stop. Next time she comes over, don't answer the door. If she has keys to your home, now would be a good time to change the locks.
2006-08-24 15:34:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 consenting adults having sex? Hmmm! Sounds legal. The problem is if one of you tries to place an emotional burden on a booty call.
2006-08-24 15:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by jax0817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're fine with it, then fine.
If you're not, change your locks, and tell her you're ready to move on. Then file the divorce papers. If you're still trying to work out your marriage, STILL change the locks, but do NOT sleep with her until you've figured out what caused you to separate to begin with!
2006-08-24 15:34:24 · answer #11 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋