Please dont say " I guess you just go on loveing them"
2006-08-24 08:24:25 · 20 answers · asked by danngazz67 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You get over it...actually, it's more likely infatuation than love anyway..but it still hurts to have feelings for someone and not have them reciprocated.
You just have to deal with it as you can...no point in pining after someone when it's not going to go anywhere. Make up your mind to pocket those feelings and move on...don't miss out on someone who may come your way who would feel the same for you, because you're upset about someone who doesn't.
2006-08-24 08:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to climb out of love with them by avoiding them at all costs. Including in your own mind. Point your energies to feeling whole and knowing what you DO want in a mate. You'll eventually attract that right person who will love you just as much as you love them.
2006-08-24 15:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one that word "fall" is your biggest problem. Its suggest some sort of accident or something done not on purpose or without purpose. So when you stop "falling in love you wont be in a situation of loving someone who does not love you.
2006-08-24 15:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your best not to obsess on them. try to keep too busy to be blue over them. if your love is real, you cant just forget about them, but you can grant yourself some dignity. appreciate yourself for being loving and gradually move that love towards a more fraternal general caring for the person, as opposed to holding romantic expectations.
2006-08-24 15:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by Eos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a saying back in the 70's:
"If you love something, set it free. If it comes back it's yours. If it doesn't, it never was.
Get out with your friends and you'll meet someone new. There is no point in wasting your time on someone who doesn't love you.
2006-08-24 15:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by RoZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get over it, and realize that you can't really love someone that doesn't love you. You just want to be in love with them.
2006-08-24 15:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up...that's what you do.
If they don't love you...then they don't love you. It's a fairly simple concept.
You move on with your life...goodness, I don't know how some people tie their shoes...oh wait, there is velcro out there.
From the Great and Powerful Poppet
2006-08-24 15:26:33 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You find a person who does its hard to get someone to want you that way so it is easier to move on. Its not worth working so hard and not even come close to working out.
2006-08-24 15:26:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cry, you feel depressed, your friends tell you "you'll get over it, it just takes time but it'll get better" which is easy for them to say and hard for you to do, but unfortunately they're absolutely right. Try to keep yourself occupied in the meantime.
Sorry.
2006-08-24 15:29:00 · answer #9 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you love someone, you want him/her to be happy even if he/she is happy without you next to.
So set your loved one free in your heart and let the best doctor (mr. Time) heal you
2006-08-24 15:42:24 · answer #10 · answered by dreamsallcometrue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋