I have a 3yr old but he will soon be 4 and my new boy friend want a baby, but I am scared that he will leave like the other one! What should I do?
2006-08-24 08:16:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Tell him to get married first then have a baby...otherwise do not put yourself in the same situation like before. That would be smart.
2006-08-24 08:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you must ask that question, then I would say to wait and see how your relationship goes. If you get married and are together after a few years then maybe consider it. But, I guess the main thing to do is listen to your heart and not his wants. If he truley loves you, and you two are meant to be together, you will be together for life, so, hopefully you have plenty of time to decide!
2006-08-24 08:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by genasinfo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be aware that just because you have a baby by your man, boyfriend or husband that there is a chance of him leaving, so make sure you have a baby for "you" and no one else.
2006-08-24 08:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I hope you and your boyfriend have been together for a long time, I would wait until your married. Babies are great, but as you already know hard to raise on your own. Good Luck!!!
2006-08-24 08:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then,that is a clear reason to obstain from sex till you are married or commited FULLY to each other.But be very cautious, tell him about your feelings and see how he feels about the situation.
2006-08-24 08:20:56 · answer #5 · answered by wallsuds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait untill you know for sure if he is going to be with you for the rest of your life
2006-08-24 09:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by marriedwithmore 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should use your brains and avoid having another baby until your relationship is more stable.
2006-08-24 08:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants a child make a commitment! Get Married!!! If that's what you want of course!!!
2006-08-24 08:34:47 · answer #8 · answered by AmandaB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married first
2006-08-24 09:16:16 · answer #9 · answered by *Star* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait till u get a full commitment.he just may change. don't do it please. just wait. i have 1. my son's father is in and out. he's not consistent. no child deserves that. children deserve their parents full attention. listen 2 me. don't do it...
2006-08-24 09:02:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋