2006-08-24 07:55:32 · 48 answers · asked by billie x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes. however, you will have your man's ego to deal with. Enjoy yourself but include your husband later. he will need ressurance that he is the special one. Also a double b j will def smooth things along !!
2006-08-24 08:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by messymessina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the first question you have to ask yourself is "Do I have the desire and WANT to have sex with a woman?" If the answer is "NO" then no you shouldn't do this. If the answer is yes, and your husband agrees (and this is the fantasy of most men) then by all means, take the leap. Sometimes it's the fantasy of just talking about it that will rock both of your worlds. If you decide to move forward with this, just make sure you set aside a time and place away from your children (that would be hard to explain) and if either of you feels uncomfortable during the process communicate this to each other. This is something that you two may find you totally enjoy from time. It is also something that may keep you out of control and on fire for a week or so after it happens! ;o) Just remember to have fun, relax and enjoy the ride. Oh and have your rules figured out before hand. Is he allowed to participate or just watch. You don't want confusion in the heat of the moment. Enjoy and let us know how it goes.
2006-08-24 08:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by Just Ask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!! That will just lead to other and further sexual problems between you and your husband.
I know because I experienced this. His fantasy was to be with 2 women and as a good wife, I gave in. We are now divorced. Ours started out as a 3some and ended up with him joining the swinger lifestyle and I didnt want to share. I gave him a choice and he chose the lifestyle.
So, think about it really hard before jumping into something that could destroy your marriage.
2006-08-24 08:02:44 · answer #3 · answered by myquietangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you have a strong relationship and you are not the jealous type, then yes, go for it. But ask yourself this...what else will your husband ask you to do to fullfill his fantasies, and what if you or he ends up going off with the third party to start a new relationship. Think about all the pros and cons before you decide.
2006-08-28 00:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by sioux 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell your husband your not too sure - why not ask him to have sex with another man while you watch - and despite their pleadings refuse to get undressed or have sex with either or both of tjhem - or better still tell him to video him and another bloke jhaving sex and see if it turns you on - and if so you might consider doing the same?! Im sure the answer will be no! Well surely he likes it up his hole?
2006-08-27 10:43:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing so for who and why? It can lead to a lot of mistrust in a relationship. I know a couple of women that tried to fulfill a mans fantasy and it ended up backfiring on them. Be careful. If it's your fantasy, why does he need to be around? Go for it and keep your mouth silent. Have fun and good luck..
Gary
2006-08-24 08:16:43 · answer #6 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-08-24 07:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by bo dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and make a video of it to post on the Net. My friend did just that and it was the best 2 minute movie I have ever seen. I don't know how they managed to make it last as long as that. That's showbiz.
2006-08-24 08:00:06 · answer #8 · answered by The Shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a display of love and affection between two married people [man and woman mind] its only beasts who do it in public!
2006-08-28 05:09:55 · answer #9 · answered by floxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Lucky husband.
2006-08-24 07:57:32 · answer #10 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋