I was with this guy for 7 yrs. we were married for 2. Bad part about it was we married while he was in prison. Well **** happened & I got tired of visiting every weekend in other cities & really got tired of not being pleasured like a wife should be. (no conjugals) So we seperated & I started to see someone else. The man I love today. I finally got him to sign divorce papers & things are great with me & my old man now. Well here is the problem, I still have feelings for my ex of course. I would never do anything to hurt my fiance. So, Is it alright if I were to write him a letter, cuz he's in prison again, jusst to see if he's ok?
2006-08-24 07:46:26 · 9 answers · asked by Athena 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's o.k. to still have feelings towards your ex. You have a history. But I think that you should put that part of your life behind you and focus on your future with your fiance.
2006-08-24 07:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might this not cause some problems at home?
and Won't your ex take your interest the wrong way since he is in prison?
This is one of those
tough questions, any answer raises new questions. Are you feeling some guilt still? anyone would do the same thing you did. lf it was me I would let it go and not jeoprodise what you have at home now. You must have felt sorry for this dude to marry him under those circumstances. You have grown since then, why go back and try to fix things?
He is where he is for what he did. He must have manipulated you to marry him. How do you feel about that?
2006-08-24 07:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by wpepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have done enough damage dont you think? you left him while he was in prison, and you want to write him out of some guilt to put your mind at ease, just leave the man alone.
2006-08-24 07:49:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see any problem wit seein if your Ex-husband is doing alright.. its nothin but a letter its not like your going to visit him are anything... Good luck!!!
2006-08-24 07:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by hottgurl314 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing 2 do is leave it alone.if you still care fore the man you would call it over.the man is hurt en.you really need to leave it alone,put your feet in his shoes.would u really want that?
2006-08-24 07:59:06 · answer #5 · answered by masterblaster146 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way forget him. when he comes out he will have a reason to look for you again. he will ruin your new relation you will never be happy after that
2006-08-24 08:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by nidia r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone if you r happy with your man just leave him alone
2006-08-24 07:52:05 · answer #7 · answered by cnalittlebit2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's alright baby. you don't need to do that for me. i'm doin' just fine.
2006-08-24 07:48:13 · answer #8 · answered by overseas and broke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone
2006-08-24 07:50:33 · answer #9 · answered by cuddles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋