I have been with my boyfriend for a year and all of a sudden he is ejaculating in me. Four months ago I thought I was pregnant but he told me he didn't want any kids. But he still insist on ejaculating in me everytime even though I told him he should stop until I go to the doctor and get birth control. He has a 8 month son and I think he wants a daughter but he gives me mix signals because I'm ready to have children. What do you think because if I end up pregnant I'm not gonna abort it.
2006-08-24 07:28:49 · 21 answers · asked by ayanna t 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
It's YOUR body, YOUR choice. If you don't want to get pregnant because you don't know if he'll support you then...get on birth control and insist he wears a condom. It's as simple as that. If he doesn't respect your decision...then he's not worth your time!
2006-08-24 07:31:28 · answer #1 · answered by .vato. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, here's the deal:
1) If you don't want him to ejaculate in him, then stay away from him until you get birth control. Don't be passive & get walked on - that's not the way a good relationship works...he shouldn't be pushing himself on you. If he tries it again, shove a condom in his face & tell him to wear it or get off of you!
2) If you want kids and he doesn't, then you need to stop the relationship ASAP...what if you end up getting pregnant but he only wants a daughter so he leaves as soon as he realizes it is another boy?
3) If you both decide that you do want to have children together, do your children a favor and get married first!
2006-08-24 16:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by Penn State Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably trying to get you pregnant and then stick you with raising the child alone like he did the other girl. There are a lot of guys out there that are like that. Unless you are married you need to go get on some birth control and make the man use a rubber. Women do not have children with Boy Friends. They have children with their husbands. Girls have children with boy friends.
2006-08-24 14:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will be guys. Yes, he may have said in the past that he would pull out and isn't now. That doesn't necessarily mean that he's on a mission to get you pregnant. To put it another way... guys are hard pressed to think with the head on their shoulders when it's time to release. He might just be in the moment and not be thinking about anything else.
Sit him down outside of playtime and have a long talk with him. Ask him outright what's going on. Maybe he's changed his mind. Whether or not that's the case, you need to have a long talk with him about this.
2006-08-24 14:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by gonefornow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, you've been going with him for a year, you don't have any children, and he has an eight month old child? Something doesn't add up here. He seems to be using you, and obviously doesn't have any regard for you or what happens to you to have unprotected sex. I'd lay down the ultimatum, either start wearing some protection or no sex. And please don't fall for the "I don't like condoms, I loose all sensitivity" line, ask him how much sensitivity he'll have if he doesn't get any sex.
2006-08-24 15:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you do get pregnant, don't abort the baby. But if he's saying he don't want kids and he keeps "jacking-off" in you, then you need 2 address the situation 2 him and tell him that the nxt time you 2 have sex, use a condom. Good Luck!
2006-08-24 14:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by MiamiChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should think about if you get pregnant by him, he will now have two childlren to take care of and you may have to deal with him, his son and the son's mother as long as you are in the relationship with him.
When deciding to have a child for any woman, make sure you want the baby 100% and you are not fooling yourself to have one because of him, ultimately you will end up taking care and being there for the baby until adulthood.
2006-08-24 14:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tie his BaLLs shut because whay would you be ready to have a child for this guy who is not with the mother of his 8 month old son, I would waite a while to see the type he is!
2006-08-24 15:12:59 · answer #8 · answered by snockey23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be ejaculating inside of u because it feels better for him or he may trying to get u prego. If u don't want it go to the doctor soon to get b/c and tell him to stop.
2006-08-24 14:35:17 · answer #9 · answered by Lindsey D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is ejaculating in you....then either he is being stupid and hoping it won't happen to him or he wants more children.....
i wouldn't abort either....
if you really think he doesn't want kids..then make him wear a condom...
does he take care of his other child?
2006-08-24 14:33:15 · answer #10 · answered by myheartisjames 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋