Me and my boyfriend been going throw some things and now I try to give him a passion mark and he push my mouth away from his neck we been together for 6 years and I try to suck on his neck and he want let me and another thing he drink 5 24oz cans of bush everyday how can I tell him that I don't wan t him because of his habits we have 2 beauitful kids and I'm 7months with his other child but I can take him not coming home at 11:00 o'clock at night drank.Please give me advice I love him but he takes I'm cheating and I'm not I did it ones and I regret it , he for give me for it known he truly thinks it but I truly think it because whats going on.
2006-08-24 07:21:45 · 17 answers · asked by sweetboo_05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You try to suck a little lower, and instead of drinking Busch he should be eating it. Where do you people come from?
2006-08-24 07:25:03 · answer #1 · answered by D.J.G. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ... i am in a relation to .. but we never did sex or such stuff .. but just telling you some fact .. u didn't mentioned that did he love you or not or still he cares for you as he was in the past .. i am with my boy friend for 4 years ... and the things which you mentioned means two things may be .. he is angry with you or may be .. he is not feeling good ... just do those things which he likes ... i mean ... any thing ... which will make him happy ... try to spead time with him ... give him this feeling that u really really really love him ... and u can't live without him .... he is coiming late .. donot fight with him ... just ask him that is their any problem or some thing is not going wel .. things like that .... and do some thing to make him feel that u r not cheating ... and plzz donot get more tense bcz .. in this condition the more u will get tense the more the situation will turn in a wrong direction ... if my bf do this stuff with me ... i trey to spend more time with him .. aur tells him how much i love him ... how much i care for him ... i dont leave him alone .. i stay with him all the time .. he gets rude but i donot .. i keep my tones slow and polite in this way .. he gets cool ... i never cheated with him but i lied to him once knowing that he donot like lies but ... i did it .. and after some time i accpeted it .. he got very angry .. but then doing all this .. i made him feel good .. and now we are having good time ... just make him feel that u love him if he gets rude .. u plzz control ur temper .. and tell you if he will feel that u really love him and care for him .. gradually every thing will come to normal .. and also see that where he is going .. their is possiblity that he got intertested some where else so .. get more alert .. i donot .. u will like .. me writing to u answer ... this is my frist time .. if u didn't liked it .. then i am sorry dear .. i just want to help you in this ..... :) take care ...
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2006-08-24 08:04:27 · answer #2 · answered by Saman B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are a pair, you have two kids , one in the oven, he drinks to excess and you have cheated in the past. Your problem is that he will not let you leave a mark? Did he drink that much before your mistake? You guys need some serious help and it is not available here.
2006-08-24 08:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know from experience that a drinking man makes a horrible husband, and a worse father. Chances are, you and the kids would be better off without him, even if it doesn't seem like it. when I got out of an abusive relationship and took my kids, we got lots of help. From free legal help, to groceries and diapers. even if he isn't cheating with a woman, he's cheating with the beer! Good luck!!!
2006-08-24 07:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by soleil7372 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought that maybe he is trying to grow up and doesnt want "passion marks" on him anymore? You have bigger issues though..........for your sake and the sake of your children go back to school,both of you. You both are role models for your children and between him drinking too much and your grammar, you need to be a good example for your children.
2006-08-24 07:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by Stewiesgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should pray about it....first, ask him if he's cheating and read his facial expressions 2 see if he's lying or not.....if that doesn't work, hire a private investigator, I know it may be a lil EXTREME but they really do work, it's the only way to see if your man is cheating or not, do it to protect yourself both physically and mentally so you'll know what he's doing
2006-08-24 07:26:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask that question from people you dont even know hell yeah he is cheating so is everyone elses get used to it just make sure he knows who is #1 if you leave him you might get worse dont go looking down keep your self up he will snap back
2006-08-24 07:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by classiclady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all who wants a hickie(passion mark).. that is like so old skool.. plus it looks gross.. ur tryna mark him so girls would know that he's taken.. girl that is tacky..
now if u don't like his habits speak up about it and stop allowing him to knock u up.. cause it seems like he's having a ball while ur in the house caring for the children...
if he doesn't change then leave him...
2006-08-24 07:27:19 · answer #8 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to sit down and talk to him. It's important that you guys have a healthy relationship and it doesn't sound like you have one. If you want to continue the relationship you could go see a counselor who can help with the problems.
2006-08-24 07:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by spezlee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be feeling insecure because you are pregnant and hormonal. A lot of men do what your boyfriend does. That doesn't mean he is cheating.
2006-08-24 07:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋