Do you think your spouse is weak for forgiving you after the affair?
2006-08-24 07:20:32 · 10 answers · asked by sassy lady 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If your spouse forgave you it doesn't mean they're weak it means they love you enough to get past this. If you plan on cheating again then shame on you, you have no right being married. Just because you were forgiven the first time doesn't mean they will the 2nd time around. Think about everything you'll lose if you get caught again, is it worth it?
2006-08-24 07:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by CLM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you regret hurting your partner but at the same time you want to cheat again. The fact that you were forgiven is huge and key, and should not be taken advantage of. its not fair to keep cheating while still in the relationship. any suspition that you are being cheated on too? or maybe the spouse just cant lose you so forgives. why were you forgiven? think about that. can you really live with yourself to keep cheating and think of what youre doing to the one you supposedly love? turn the situation around. how do you feel. its temping to cheat, but think of what you are doing to the one you love.
2006-08-24 07:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by somegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My spouse would not supply a **** the position I stick it at this factor. Is that an same aspect as forgiveness? with regards to my skill to forgive infidelity...If I felt loved, yet that my better 0.5 had basically succumbed to a short-term temptation, i imagine i might want to forgive that once. i have carried out it previously, even with the very undeniable actuality that it became more desirable than a short-term temptation. yet when an better 0.5 were to attempt this 3 situations or more desirable, at that factor i might want to guage it more desirable of a habit than a lapse. And that could want to likely be the right of that relationship. That being reported, human beings do not fairly comprehend how they'll act in a number of those circumstances till they're confronted with the reality of it. Giving someone up whom you've change into quite connected to might want to be perplexing, and also, thoughts of betrayal will be better than one might want to anticipate.
2016-11-27 19:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband cheated on me about 5 years ago. he even told her that he loved her, but things did not turn out like he wonted. we are still together, he has not cheated on me scince, i belive that when she did not love him like he did her. it hurt him very deeply and he is too scared to try that again. he has been more of a husband to me in the past 5 year, than we have been together in the 18 years together.
2006-08-24 07:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by JESUS loves 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time they do regret hurting their partner and most of the time they are forgiven but they will ALWAYS do it again.
2006-08-24 07:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by Golosa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be kidding me! I hope you have no children! I bet the other women will get tired of you as quick as you are tryin to get rid of your wife. Women like a challenge so once you leave your wife for her you no longer are a challenge. You need jesus you idiot.
2006-08-24 07:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by LOLITA 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im gonna watch for the answer to this one myself!
2006-08-24 07:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by cee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, i wud think dat he really luvs me n even thoe i cheated on him, he stil want to b wit me. dat tells me sumthin about how he felt about me...
2006-08-24 07:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by dal0y3uanhr0i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you and I should have a affair..
2006-08-24 07:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow u r some piece of work, with this ?
2006-08-24 09:14:06 · answer #10 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋