i think he is going to leave me with nothing, his father is involved with mob and they have had people "visited" when they were in trouble. How can I get information that shows their illigal business deals, with out them knowing, for example if i make recordings, can they be used in court or how do I black male so I dont get killed?
2006-08-24 07:11:21 · 20 answers · asked by annie e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the thing about just leaving is we have children, and I am afraid if i try to just divorce him he will hurt me because of what i know.
2006-08-24 07:59:34 · update #1
I have been there (in fact I am there now) My best advise to you is:
make copies of everything, if you can gain access to a computer, do. and make sure that you make a copy of anything he has that sheds light on his activities, or looks suspicious. Then make a second copy. Get two lawyers give each of them the information don't tell them what it is. just tell them that in the event that something happens to you give on set of papers to the detective in charge of your case and one to the FBI.
Then you tell your husband that if anything happens to you or your family, even something that looks like an accident, or if he tries to hide things during the divorce, your lawyer and one unidentified lawyer will be alerted and information that you have on him will be given to the police and to the FBI. This ought to scare him enough that he will not try to cheat you or hurt you.
However, please be care full while doing this, don't let your husband know, cover all your tracks. My prayers are with you.
2006-08-24 07:24:14 · answer #1 · answered by deet deet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First step, create a web page so that people can help you track them. Yahoo! Answers was a good start, but you really should get as much help as possible.
Good idea thinking he won't want to kill you if you black male him. Btw, by "black male" you mean have an affair with a black man?
Ultimately, your question implies you don't have the aptitude to perform such an undertaking without getting whacked. I'd suggest running away, no wait, you probably would botch that on yahoo too, "Where's a good place to go into hiding so my mob husband can't find me?" Hmm, that leaves just one option...suicide. Good luck with that.
2006-08-24 14:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by Edward T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have placed yourself in a very dangerous position. Get out of your relationship as discreatly as possible. Put all your information that you know as facts and give a copy to your attorney and a copy to be opened in case of your demise. Then if your husband tries to stop you from getting out of your relationship, then tell him you have placed this information with competent authorities but will not be released unless he refuses to let you alone.
2006-08-24 14:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by cmiswig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try watching something other than the sopranos, come on if he was worth watching he already would be...did u ever hear of wannabes, believe me if he was family, u wouldnt know so much baby. the real ones dont advertise. get a good lawyer if he files for divorce, but maybe he not gonna leave u....maybe he will "get rid of u" BOO!
2006-08-24 14:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god!!!!
girl!!!!
donot try to set him up or black mail him!!! wow ..treading on dangerous ground!!!
try to get a divorce. set down and talk to him.
cut friends and clean!!!
or move far away..foreign country. new life!!! please i fear for you .
bogota de colombia south america is cool. nice stable temps.
the city is big, pretty liike good places in newyork.
my rich dad lives there. he is in the colombian mafia !!
really i dont know, but ive only seen him 5 times. 7 yrs old, 26 yrs old and 3 other times.
but anyway, get away, save money, make a plan. slip out the back jack, make a new plan stan, dont need to be coy roy, just get yourself freeeee. hop on a bus guss, dont need to discuss much, drop off the key lee ...just get ya self free!!!(old song) 50 ways to leave your lover!!!
do u have kids?? he will want to see them, my my, i say get away..get lost. erase all computer stuff, leave no paper trail!!
dont look back, dont call any old friends.
this is serious.dont play with the mafia!!!!or any crime organization!!!!
take care. dont be stupid!!!
now erase all of this. go to start menu..erase yahoo. please use your brains or they will be on the ground. no set ups!!!!!
2006-08-24 14:21:20 · answer #5 · answered by grasshopper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are telling the truth, just ask for a divorce. Take whatever he gives you, if anything, and go! Dont even try to prove what they are doing. Just get out and dont even mention your suspicions.
2006-08-24 14:46:03 · answer #6 · answered by Stewiesgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact someone you know "who also has issues with him" ! They will help you or go to the police. You can't record someone without there permission but you can get the police to tap your phone with a permit.
2006-08-24 14:14:22 · answer #7 · answered by www.storkchat.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
darling u r way in over ur head.. u need to get access to his accts w/the $$ and have it transferred into ur acct.. don't worry about their dealings w/the mob.. just worry about the $$ because that will get that a ss killed..
be careful...
2006-08-24 14:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
xerox and copy what ever you can. everything can be used in court. If you really hink he is preparig to leavem find a good lawayer for advice. He's a fool
2006-08-24 14:14:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can just get ur stuff with out him knowing and leave change ur name grow a beard shave it off change ur name to E annie gain weight then lose some get married to change ur last name and RUN LIKE HELL.
2006-08-24 14:16:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋