2006-08-24 07:06:48 · 21 answers · asked by tony j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
XXXXXXXXXX Creativity is the key to a fun marriage. Take turns planning a special meal, a special outting, a special day just for the two of you with no distractions. No cell phones, tv, or kids. A bubble bath together, a nice massage, a pic nic in the park, a walk on the beach, Something romantic and eye stimulating. Like a country drive. Just a little quality time with your spouse can mean so much. Good luck.
2006-08-30 09:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend more time together by taking nice walks in the park,having a nice and relaxing dinner for the two of you, together, either at home or at a nice restaurant, cuddling together on the couch, you can either watch television & cuddle, or just sit and have a nice conversation & cuddle with each other! (that will lead to much, much, more)! There has always been nice & beautiful things that couples can do together to spark up their marriage, and getting to know & learning to love each other even more then they do already!!!!!
Good Luck To The Both Of You!
2006-09-01 07:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exercising together is really fun-gets you thinking about your body--or his.
Dance lessons-excellent idea-check the Y
Go grocery shopping late at night and play with your food.
Walk in the park and stop and smell the flowers-together.
Take massage classes and practice on each other.
Buy her something she's wanted for a long time- like very expensive perfume or a Victoria Secret's robe. Not too sexy-just thoughtful, extravagant and unnecessary.
Leave sticky notes in the reefer, on the sink, in the dresser, in the car, in the lunch box--that say" redeem me for a kiss."
Ask her not to make plans for the weekend. Hire a sitter, if necessary. Don't say where you are going. Get in your car on Saturday and just drive until you get to a motel in the sticks. Stop for champagne at a liquor store. Then stop the night and get up Sunday morning and drive home. Don't force anything-just get away from the routine.
Go out to a nice restaurant in the middle of the week because "You deserve it."
Have her watch engraved-I love you right this second.
Hug him and kiss him every time you see him, but not to initiate sex, just for sweetness. It will rub off.
Go to the zoo, or circus, and hold hands and remember being a child, without him or her.
2006-09-01 07:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on trip to buy fireworks. Return home different route. Take the time to sniff the other staes roses(or whatever floats da boats for both). Come back and share the works with friends etc...
Besides actual sparks the new experiences may spark something...
Cannot afford the trip or fireworks find a shared NEW interest to explore.
2006-08-31 03:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by uncledad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Tony, my wife and I have regular "date nights". We get dressed in what the other person wants them to wear, we pick a restaurant that we enjoy or a new one we haven't tried. Afterwards we go to this sinful little dessert shop or sometimes something simple like miniature golfing! Afterwards we go home and since our dinner conversation is usually of a sexual nature, we can't wait to get started. You could also try scenarios too which we also do. Things such as the naughty school girl and the principal, the cop and the hooker or the doctor and patient giving each other very sexual examinations!
Use your imagination and have fun!
2006-08-24 11:16:44 · answer #5 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES dancing lessons Tango Baby
2006-09-01 05:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by Israel G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any activity is good for you to reconnect you just have to have fun while doing it. Go bowling, say who ever wins has to treat that person of a night of fun in the hay, or go putt-putt and whoever wins gives that person a body massage, it don't have to be none of these but its a example of making it fun and yet trying to be adventurous and surpising one another and something new. good luck and just have fun.
2006-08-24 07:19:54 · answer #7 · answered by hopelovesu2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a Swingers group.
2006-09-01 04:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by Tim Taylor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure where you live but where I am our local community college offers lots of Couples Classes. We are signing up for Couples Massage this fall.
2006-08-24 07:13:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try new things in the bedroom like strawberries and whipped cream and etc. or suprise eachother by doing nice little things here and there for one another. it's quite simple really. just be creative.
2006-09-01 05:43:58 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋