I am a nudist. My wife isnt and thinks it is gross, and descriminating. I dont want to do this experience without her.
2006-08-24 07:06:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Shouldn't have married her.
2006-08-24 07:07:32 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If nudity is such a big and important part of your life then it's definately something which should have been discussed and given much consideration to before the marriage took place. However, at this point, all I can say is that if she's not comfortable with it, she may never be and I hope you could accept that. I'm not sure what beach you'd be going to if it would be "clothing optional" or "clothing forbidden". If she is willing, and only if she is willing, maybe you could try suggesting a "clothing optional" beach where she could wear her bathing suit or part thereof. Maybe if she could first get comfortable just being around other nude people without having to be nude herself it might help. Or maybe after being there for a little while, she may begin to feel like the one being stared at because she's got clothes on and may be more apt to take them off. Maybe one piece at a time. Maybe it will take a few times of going with clothes on to be more comfortable. Maybe she won't even agree to go under any circumstances. All you can do is make some suggestions which you feel may make her as comfortable as she can be with it. It's a very personal thing and if in the end, she declines, you need to just accept that and find other things for the two of you to share or do together. My husband has been trying to get me to go to a nude beach for about 10 years now and I still haven't got the guts to go. Maybe one day....I haven't completely ruled it out. Funny thing is, the older I get, the more likely I am to go since the less I care about what others think but that's the time that my appearance would probably be the most offensive, lol. Anyway, best of luck. P.S.- Maybe take her on vacation to a country where you'll never see those people again. Maybe she'd feel more comfortable with that as a starting point. If not, well, a vacation in the tropics never hurt anyone, lol.
2006-08-24 07:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by Super-Mom9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure she understands that she DOESN'T have to take off her clothes, for a start. There will be all shapes, sizes, and probably ages at the beach. So she'll see that whatever her body type is, she's not unique. She also won't be the center of attention if she does go nude. But it takes about 15 minutes of nudity on the beach before that realization sinks in.
2016-03-15 21:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by Sharon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound as if you will make it to a nudist beach with your wife, so why not explore other alternatives? You married her because you love her and respect her, you wouldn't want to push something she finds gross and discriminating on the woman you love and respect, would you?
2006-08-24 07:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by Inquisitive1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then buy some property out in the country with a lot of trees. She will probably go along with romping there rather than in front of a bunch of strangers. Seeing a bunch of naked, misshapen people would gag me, too. I can't see how the chairs would be too healthy for people to share there either. Guess it is great for an even suntan, tho. Good luck.
2006-08-24 07:10:00 · answer #5 · answered by Sally M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She already gave you her answer. It's a highly personal decision and there's no compromise on the issue. You either like it or you don't. The more you push her, the worse your relationship is going to get. Go by yourself if it doesn't bother her.
2006-08-24 07:14:21 · answer #6 · answered by Danger, Will Robinson! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her how beautiful she is and that I would like to see her on that beach too. You have to convince her that she is a jewel and all jewels need to be displayed with grand vision!
Good Luck
Jb
2006-08-24 07:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nude Beach Wives
2016-11-09 22:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by bagnaschi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER TO GIVE IT A TRY AND GO IN WITH AN OPEN MIND. I JUST RECENTLY STARTED DATING A MAN THAT IS A NUDEST. AT FIRST IT KIND OF FREAKED ME OUT BUT WITHIN A FEW WEEKS I GREW INTO IT. I LOVE IT
2006-08-24 07:08:58 · answer #9 · answered by JERSEY GIRL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push the issue she either will or wont in time, that's all i can come up with sorry but i know that don't help anyway i want the answer to this question too. thanks for asking this
2006-08-24 07:10:43 · answer #10 · answered by dalmation60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋