Why does my wife get so upset when she catches me playing with myself while looking at internet porno sites?

Question

I mean, like its my stuff that I'm fondling and all. Not hers.

Answer 1

go get some help

Answer 2

You know I really understand your wife. Probly because I have gone through almost the same as she is. I didn't catch my husband masturbating while watch internet pornos, but I did find out he was looking at them. The thing is that when we see our partner fonding with himself or even looking at internet pornos, we think as if we're not enough for you men. As if she is not as important to you so that you can just quit and try to make her happy. If your not happy why don't you just tell her. Do you love her? Do you not like the way she makes love with you? Or what is the problem? What ever it is you need to talk to her. Oh!!! and just because you like watching pornos it does not mean that it's not her problem because it is. The two time that I found out my husband was watching half naked hushies on the internet I was upset. If you got married it's because you love her and trust her. You also have to have a lot of communication. With out communication you minus well give eachother some time to think what you want for your marriage. Trust me I know it's hurting her inside. If she doesn't show it, it's because she see's you tripping because she's upset that you're not listening. If you want your marriage you need to stop watching pornos and start respecting you.

Answer 3

Maybe she feels you'd rather jerk off to the internet then be intimate with her. Start showing some respect to the woman you married. Most men masterbate when the wife isn't around to fulfill their needs, your wife is obviously home if she's catching you. Stop being a perv and start showing your wife that your interested in her and not the internet. (Some people don't deserve to be married.)

Answer 4

Well it could be a couple of reasons you might try asking her but here are some possibilities......She feels left out, she feels jealous, she is not that comfortable with her sexuality, or she thinks you get enough sex from her so you should not be playing tug of war with cyclops LOL. Try including her in your adventures..........it's more fun TRUST ME, BTW I am a female and I know my man does it but I like to watch while pretending I'm not LOL Personally if I caught him.... I would try to get in on the action b/c to me it's a turn on that he's being naughty!

Answer 5

Because she feels that you don't think that she is 'enough' for you. True, you are not looking at other women around you and you are not cheating, but it's still an insult. I had to get use to it myself but there is a part of me that still feels that it is an insult. To be kind to your wife.. do it in private.

Answer 6

My wife is deceased, but she would do the playing with me and I never watch Porno

Answer 7

She probably thinks its kinda gross, or more importantly, she would want you get get pleasure from having sex with her, not with getting off from some porno website. That's such an insult...if you love her, you should be gettin' it on together; you should not have to go online for your fun!

Answer 8

Are you choosing to do that over being with her?

That would be a major problem for me. In my home if I say no I don't care if he does that. If you're choosing to do that you need to figure out why or it has a good chance of causing many problems in your relationship.

Answer 9

Maybe she's the one that wants to turn you on and not some porn site where you'll never get the real pleasure in.

Answer 10

She sees that as a betrayal like for some reason you don't think she is pretty enough, or good enough for you. Have respect for your wife and do not do this. Or one day you will loose her.

Answer 11

She is jealous ,but should be pleased if you ask me .The bigger the meat the better the meat.At least she know you won't bring her a VD back.