2006-08-24 06:57:23 · 19 answers · asked by Edgar M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, it is very hard. But we get thru each day one at a time. You find a routine that fits you best and do that each day. It has helped me with my family.
2006-08-24 07:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only have 2 of the three - career and marriage. There is definitely a need for balance and it can be hard at times but it's not new thing. It takes work, but it' worth the work. My parents did it before I did - they both had/have amazing careers, a solid marriage and 4 kids. I hope to be just as successful as they were!
2006-08-24 14:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is what you really want, then, NO. But, if you don't want kids and you accidentally get pregnant. Then, you will probably have a hard time with it. If you are used to doing a certain thing and something unexpected gets thrown into the mix, it is going to throw you off kiel. But, I have a career, a husband, and 2 little girls. I couldn't be more happy. My life has more meaning because of it. It is all in your ideals. You will find a way to make it all work.
2006-08-24 14:03:02 · answer #3 · answered by kimmypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very hard but not impossible. I worked a full time job, went to college part time, and had a young son. There were many nights I stayed up till 2 - 3 am with my face in a book studying, then had to be up by 6:30 am to get son ready for school. But for me it was well worth it. My house was clean but not as clean as I would have liked it. But I put my son as my first priority, then my job, then my schooling, then my house. There were many times I felt like throwing the towel in but I didn't. Now I have a very good paying job doing something that I truly enjoy, a happy son, and a clean house...lol.
2006-09-01 02:05:34 · answer #4 · answered by looking for answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, very hard, but a lot of people do it. Sometimes one of the three suffer or is neglected; just do not let it be the same one losing out all the time. Don't become a workaholic (the family suffers & so do you) Don't lose sight of yourself in the mix (everyone suffers) Ask for help you cannot do it alone or without
support from family and friends. Don't try to be super woman; it
can cause you to burn out.
2006-08-24 14:12:48 · answer #5 · answered by early bird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...have done it for years...4 kids, 4th marriage LOL, and same old career LOL
Only hard thing at this point is getting out of the bed in the morning LOL
2006-09-01 05:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People said no but I said it is really hard to balance that...
2006-09-01 06:27:04 · answer #7 · answered by pn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES... but it's possible. And there's nothing like family. Pay extra attention to your loved ones.
2006-08-30 13:26:55 · answer #8 · answered by KC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all. takes a person that is organized to do so but not hard at all if you have a system in place.
2006-09-01 08:22:09 · answer #9 · answered by queenie_the_big_pushen_meanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you are a strong person, committed to your family, and able to do what needs to be done when it needs to be done.
Lazy people cannot manage it.
2006-08-24 13:59:09 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋