2006-08-24 06:54:48 · 33 answers · asked by Edgar M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
One issue at a time. Sit down and calmly discuss the issue at hand. Communicate and then compromise.
Remember that no one is wrong and no one is right. And you each have your own opinions.
If you have more then one conflict to discuss then don't try to handle them all at once. If you have to then put all the issues in a hat and draw out the one up for discussion that night.
Trying to handle more then one at a time does nothing but start world war one.
2006-08-31 16:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not make the conflicts personal. do not blame, in a quiet place say this is what I see, this how it is affecting me, how do WE deal with this. Each partner must be allowed to speak, tell their feelings and then you might or might not have a better understanding of what is creating the conflict, as well as how to deal with it. Also do not drag others into the conflict, Kids, parents,anyone not directly causing the problem. I know it sounds odd but try and have some rules about problem solving, you will be delighted with the results.
2006-08-31 06:16:33 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wrong thing is to get mad and act on your anger. This always brings an outcome that you regret. Don't try to deal with this when your mad, calm down, then talk about it with your mate. The time out gives you time to think about it and make better decisions. Also, don't assume that the other person is wrong! Asses your part in the conflict, could you be wrong? Lots of conflicts could be avoided if you would put yourself in the other persons place and try to see it from they're point of view.
2006-09-01 04:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situations of the conflicts! If it is nothing to really worry about then you should just give them your opinions on the matter and then finish what ever it was that you were doing before the conflicts started! If it is terrible, then I think that the family should come together and what ever the terrible conflicts are about, they should work & come together as a family so that they will be there for one another to help the situations,(what ever they might be), stay very lovingly & calmly!!!!!!
2006-09-01 05:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I refuse to ever talk seriously about any subject. As soon as you begin to relate with a woman as if she is actually human, you become a slave. Women are sweet, nurturing, sincere creatures incapable of human reason, because they are driven by emotions and feelings. She knows she's unreasonable and you know she's unreasonable, but you have to be able to communicate this in a way that is funny. Best thing to do, is refuse to engage her in the trival conversation by complementing her or making her laugh, while simultaneously transmitting that you agree on some level. Tell her you agree 100% and that she is the loveliest creature God ever put on earth. Lay it on think. Then retire the sofa for a beer.
2006-08-31 11:13:52 · answer #5 · answered by MOTOR PANTS OF MEXICO 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, although I don't know how to help you, I could tell you jokes to help you feel better. The jokes goes:
-Doctor! I have a serious problem, I can never remember what i just said.
-When did you first notice this problem?
-What problem?
One more joke:
A guy calls his vet and says "What should I do with my cat?Vet says "What do you mean? Guy says "I had a leak in my lawnmowers gas tank and the cat drank the gas. Then the cat began to run around and around the yard, climbed a tree. then fell out of the tree stiff. Vet says "Is the cat dead? Guy replies "nope he ran out of gas.
Last of all just want to tell you that whatever you do, just don't give up. Also you must love and care for the people around you. In that way they will also show you the love that you show to them. Just be yourself and happy everyday. Wish you all the best and good luck!!
One of the party menbers must gave in. But when he gave in, all the other party must also respect him or her.
2006-08-31 01:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for the most part I keep my mouth shut. If it is a subject that goes against my values I put my foot down, other wise, it doesn't really matter.
I believe that people are all different, even my own kids have their opinions. I try to let them live their lives in a way that makes them happy.
If I have said my piece about something and the other party wishes to go against me, then I step aside and let them go ahead. More often than not they realize later on that I was right.
2006-09-01 05:15:33 · answer #7 · answered by Chief 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We play a home version of "Celebrity Death Match" the one alive at the end wins..
But I jest...
Communication and humor, if you can find something humorous in the situation it dispels the tension and the conflict evaporates...
2006-09-01 04:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by Diane (PFLAG) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the Root of the Conflict, then take it from there.
2006-09-01 03:25:45 · answer #9 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One at a time. If you try to deal with more it just end up being to much
Deal with one at a time.
2006-08-24 06:57:31 · answer #10 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋