so do i wait?

Question

okay i'm with a great guy and i care alot about him but i don't know how far to take it because he is "slow" when comes to that kind of stuff. he's real sweet but innocent. and i'm not. so i don't want to push him too far or anything but i hate not doing very much...ahhh idk

and i'm not gonna like force him i just don't know how to tell what he's comfortable with. we don't talk about it really

Answer 1

let him come to you when he's ready. you can do romantic things together that will get him thinking. he may start asking himself if their is more and curiostity will over come the shyness he has with you. just remember, the time you have together when its all new will never return. the getting to know each other phase, the discovery! how fun it is. let him enjoy his discovery.

Answer 2

I think you should try different things with him gradually so that he gets a chance to get familiar with it. Also you have a chance to show him things he may not know about so in a sense it could be fun. But in my Opinion you should just be very gradual with what you do or show him. And don't be scared to show him somethings.

Answer 3

i was in the same possion. but i was the one slow. i was still a virgin. but i got with this man. he took it from me. he is always wantin to do stuff. but i want to take it slow some time. mabe you two can work out a agreement. talk to him. if hes worth if then take it slow if he is not. then leave him dont miss lead him

Answer 4

Don't push too hard you'll scare him completly away. Whats the hurry anyway.

Answer 5

Don't push into anything he doesn't want to do or you will scare him away. Be patient.

Answer 6

I bet he wants to but he is probably thinking the same thing you are. Try it, just ask!

Answer 7

Leave him alone Barbie.

Answer 8

If you really care and love him, you will wait...